It is believed that the imitation of orgasm "indulge" mostly women, however, as it turned out, men in this matter are not as much inferior to them. All this is not an allegation, there are statistics based on scientific research, and so she also says that 40, if not 50% of men, periodically imitate orgasm. A lot of questions arise, such as, "And why are they needed?", "How to understand whether he simulated an orgasm or not?", "And what if he is engaged in imitation?"
But there are in the case of imitation of orgasm in women some advantage, it is easier to spend their partner, but the man has more difficult. After all, the main proof of male orgasm is sperm. Priimitations have to somehow get out, explaining or hiding its absence.
Although, with a certain skill of a man, this will not become a problem, because the used condom can be immediately wrapped in a napkin, or thrown out on the way to a bath or toilet. All the rest of the matter of technology, knowing how to get rid of the main "evidence", to reproduce languid moans and other signs of orgasm is not too difficult.
Most women explain their propensity to imitate the fact that they want to support their partner in this way, they want to make him feel incapable of giving her pleasure, or tries to hide the most some problems in themselves. Strangely enough, but men, explaining the reasons for which sometimes imitate orgasm, give the same arguments. And if the same he protects his partner from unpleasant thoughts, this indicates that a man is a gentleman, and if by that he hides not self-confidence, speaks of his modesty, perhaps indecision.
What is the reason?
There are situations that an erection erupted in a man, as a result of a love affair, but he did not experience an orgasm. Why?
The most common reason for this phenomenon is this stress. And we do not mean that stage of stress, when nerves are in such tension, that as a result impotence comes, due to psychological factors. This is a more global problem. But there are "one-time" misses in bed, they can be associated with troubles at work, with feelings about quarrels with a close friend, etc.
In such a situation, the man is in such a state that his experiences overwhelm the whole feeling. That is why, the body reacts to sex in the form of an erection, but the emotional perception is somewhat dulled because of the outrage of external factors. In addition, stressful situations in this way affect the body, that during lovemaking, insufficient amount of lubricant is allocated, in connection with which the penetration process and the things that follow the imine always bring pleasant sensations. This response to stress is peculiar to the male and female body.
Another reason that can be attributed to the lack of an emotional part of orgasm in a man is a short foreplay. Most men after 30, it takes more time to reach the desired level of excitement. In addition, men like to stimulate themselves during sexually different fantasies, and it's not that he does not like a partner or he does not like the position in which she now wants to have sex.
Masculine fantasies during sexual intercourse the process is more subconscious, it allows a man to adjust to the rhythm of his partner. After all, some women are excited faster and are ready to reach the peak of excitement at the same time as a Spartner, and some need more time for this than her partner. Ittut to help a man comes his fantasy, which either speeds up the process of his excitement, or vice versa allows him to delay. So, here in a stressful situation, a man does not always manage to call for help his imagination, and this is also the reason for some misses.
How to be?
Do not save time for the prelude, long preliminary laskipolozhitelno affect on both partners. You do not need to have sex when you are physically and physically tormented by those around you and circumstances throughout the whole of today.
It is not necessary to dissemble. If you and your partner have simulated an orgasmodic fold, then a second and so on, this is already a problem, which can only be solved by discussing it. Perhaps everything will be easier than it seems, for example, it will be enough to change the pose.
Do not play silently during sex, if you want to try something new, just voice your desire.