Wisdom is ...
Many philosophers have defined the meaning of wisdom. And they are all different. For some, this is the competent application of knowledge and experience, for others, to speak the truth. Thomas Shash said that wise people forgive, but never forget. Proceeding from this, it can be assumed that a wise woman will forgive her man and tolerate everything that he does not. And even if it hurts or offends, it will forgive for the preservation of the home. But is it right? Everyone decides for himself.
They say that with a wise woman, a man remains forever. But at what price? How much should a woman forgive? What should she shut her eyes on? Just imagine how much strength and patience is needed for this. Hence, it turns out that a wise wife should be a strong spirit.
Cooperation or wisdom?
Family life requires from both spouses not only patience, but also the ability to get out of the most unpredictable situations with dignity. One old and wise man said that a man by himself is not yet a man, the same applies to a woman. Only when a woman and a man meet and create a family, they merge into one. And if both of them think alike, act and live, then the family will be strong and happy, and most importantly will last a long time.
In most cases it depends on the woman that the future expects the family. I'm not saying that the role of men is not so important. But even from the earliest times a man was considered to be the breadwinner, the maintainer of his family. And the woman was completely different in the eyes of the woman. She was and to this day is the guardian of the home. It is the woman who gives strength and trust in her husband.
A wise wife will always make sure that the house is calm, warm and cozy. She will do everything to ensure that the man himself would like to go home after work, give flowers and love her with all his heart. A wise wife will always try to multiply everything that is in the house. After all, she understands that family life is a kind of cooperation in which one must be able to go oncompromises, somewhere to be active, and somewhere on the contrary, to close one's eyes to something and so on. Therefore, do not expect the wisdom of an 18 year old girl. Everything comes with years and experience. In addition, it takes a lot of excerpt and a lot of time to become like that.
But even for women after 30 does not always come all this. Therefore, to find a wise woman is to find a treasure that everyone dreams about. But you can not be so categorical and expect from a woman that she will be immaculately seized seven days a week. In addition, next to the ideal is very difficult to start, you feel incomplete. But next to a wise wife, a man will be a knight in armor. For a woman, he will be a god, and she is a goddess. And if feelings fade away, there will remain trust, respect and mutual understanding. All know that love is not eternal.
Second half…
A wise woman is an intelligent woman. In another way, it can not be. In order to be wise, it is necessary to feel and know a lot. Clever can with a half-word all understand and anticipate desires. With such a woman, you can discuss the problems and experiences, ask for advice or just talk. She will never insist and reproach, just express her opinion or subtly hint that this is her point of view, but a man has the right to do what he himself thinks is necessary.
A wise woman will always be there, even if she does not like something. Her children will listen to her and she will rarely raise her tone. She will be an excellent mother. She will be trusted by all members of the family: children and husband. A clever woman can punish a crime so that children never repeat it. She can solve any issue, even very difficult.
Thanks to intuition and non-standard approaches, a wise woman can find a way out of various situations. She will simply provide any help, without asking anything in return. She will know about all the weaknesses, but she will not point to them and will not rebuke them. She will love passionately, strongly, non-unobtrusively.
To the men for a note ...
It's hard to believe, but this is a characteristic of a woman-a wise woman. And such exist. Just need to find. But men, you must realize that once you meet such a woman, you need to be with her until the end, never let her down, love her and take care of her. Every woman needs this. If she will feel reciprocity on your part, then she will be for you the best. It may take time to learn something, but it will be worth it.
Men, remember that a woman is your reflection. She will treat you the same way you treat her. She can endlessly forgive your trespass. But just imagine how difficult it will be for her. Therefore, you must evaluate it and do everything to make it happy. Then your house will be filled with comfort, love, warmth, caring, affection and coziness. Want, that your woman acted wisely, appreciate it and do not give extra reasons for grief.