Why, from the very birth , are the sex signs subconsciously distributed. Girls play dolls and children's dishes, boys, in typewriters and in the war with pistols. This happens with the admission of adults. After all, when we choose toys for our children, we too are guided by the child's sex. Girls buy dolls, a bowl, a toy sewing machine, a stroller. And boys, cars, pistols, designers. So it turns out that children from the smallest age determine for themselves toys, with our light hand. A girl who takes a typewriter or a pistol for her game - this fact causes a storm of emotions. And adults always say "you're a girl, take a doll!". The same situation with boys.
When a child goes to the first class , he has a new circle of friends, communication with children is already at a different level. As children feel more responsible, they grow up. There are secrets. For example, when a daughter comes back from school and shares her secret with her mother, "Mom loves Vitya in school, he pulled me for a pigtail".
At an older age , children become secretive. If the parents have a trusting relationship, they can share some secrets, but all secrets will not be revealed. During this period it is very important to trust the child, and confidence in their children can only be due to proper upbringing. If you are sure that your son or daughter will not fall into a bad company, they will not use alcohol, drugs or smoke, so you have found the right approach in raising children.
Now they are hotly debating about the introduction of sexual education in school. Most parents are against this approach. In their opinion, such issues need to be discussed at home. I want to note that most parents do not want to talk on this topic. There are many reasons, they are embarrassed, there is no time for such trifles, or they just buy an encyclopedia and let the child himself understand. But you can give a lot of arguments in favor of such classes at school. First, all the explanatory work is carried out by a specialist who will correctly present all the information, and can competently answer all the questions. Secondly, children will learn everything from the "first hands", and not from friends from the street. Which is very important. After all, how many cases of pregnancy of schoolgirls, diseases of genital organs, simple ignorance of contraception. Everything you need, the guys will find out from the professional.
If parents do not want problems with the sexual development of their child, then it is just necessary to talk with him on this topic. Talk about preventive measures, contraception, sexually transmitted diseases, the consequences of sexual intercourse (pregnancy). And then you can avoid problems with sex education.
In the Soviet Union, there was no sex . And such a hold has survived until now, parents can not raise such topics, since they also did not talk about such a plan. Let's break old norms. Shame, this is not a feeling that parents should stop. Talking with children is the best way to prevent a child's problems, both physical and moral. Be it a boy or a girl, they will know all the consequences, which means it is more responsible to approach this issue.