Unfortunately, love is not a guarantee that people will be together forever. It happens that loving people have to part. Why does this happen and what causes such a difficult choice for both men and women?
Diversified statuses
In fairy tales princes always marry poor Cinderellas and live happily ever after. But in life everything can happen quite differently. People with different social status can be really difficult together. The fact is that relationships can not be built on love alone. People should also have common interests, views on the situation and so on. At the end, people need to know what to talk about. But when a guy and a girl have grown up in completely different classes of society, they have an excellent idea of offenses, hardships, and so on, sooner or later they will feel how difficult it is for them to be together. Often such relations develop into scandals, accusations of each other's out-of-understanding. At the same time people continue to feel love, but still, nothing can do anything to themselves. However, this is not surprising, because ourindividuality is always formed under the influence of the society in which we grow. Accordingly, if we are placed in a completely different habitat, then consciously or subconsciously a person begins to resist what surrounds him. So it turns out that Cinderellas love princes, but that's just not always able to withstand the glorious world of their chosen ones, in which simple girls have nothing to do.
Incompatibility of the characters
There are situations when lovers diverge, because they constantly scandal and swear. The reason for this are incompatible characters. Moreover, it is here about the opposite about the opposite characters, namely, similar ones. For example, both the man and the woman are the leaders by their nature. They are used to always dominate the relationship. And it turns out that one of them will have to do something. Naturally, everyone wants a second person to make concessions. Vitoga, between lovers constantly begin to break out quarrels and disputes and nobody wants to give in to each other. That's why they diverge. Thus such people can love each other all life, here only to be together at them it is impossible. Very often, such pairs try to come together several times, but soon after a happy mock reconciliation, discord again begins. The fact is that such ladies and girls do not have enough tolerance and compliance. They never make compromises, especially with close people. It is necessary for such individuals to be paired with a very loyal partner who simply will not pay attention to their stubbornness.
Social sharing
Many people are pressured by public opinion. Often couples break up because the people around them constantly discuss their relationship and speak impartially. You can, however, say that when you love, you will not pay attention to public opinion. But everything is not so simple as it seems. For example, in very religious families, they will never accept a person of another religion or atheist, no matter how a girl or boyfriend does not love his chosen one. Such a society will constantly express a sharp protest against this person. In this case, no one thinks about the feelings of young people. Everyone believes that they are doing the right thing and practically protecting the young mind from evil. Although, in reality, a couple in love has to bear the threats of iobida daily, listen to very unpleasant speeches in their direction, threats. In such situations, sooner or later they can simply part because the psyche does not maintain such pressure. Lucky for those who can go to another place, away from all those who are trying to break their lives, justified by righteous intentions. But more often than not such couples do not have the opportunity to leave their native city or village and gradually the pressure of society becomes simply unbearable and we have to disperse in order not to simply go insane. Unfortunately, there are cases when such couples can not live without each other, but they do not want to live in such pressure either. In this case, couples most often go to double suicides to get rid of life-long pressure and never to part.
I do not want to spoil life
On the parting of people can push elementary nobility. In this case, a person simply understands that he can not give the loved one what he deserves. The reasons can be different: opposite characters, different goals and so on. For example, a guy sees that his favorite girl is very sociable, sociable and romantic. She believes in fairy tales and wants a favorite person to create this tale for her. She has huge ambitions and desires. She constantly needs to communicate, come up with something new, travel and so on, and the young man is a silent homebody who genuinely tries to do what his woman wants, but everything is given to him with great difficulty and he realizes that he can never become such a person as she needs. For some time he sincerely tries to fix everything, but then he begins to understand that the person simply suffers beside him. Even if she does not show this, vseravno he senses how difficult it is and understands that it will be even more difficult. In such situations, the second halves do not always immediately realize why it happened. They are angry with their loved ones, just disappeared from their lives, they blame them for being too lazy, too stupid, and so on. Understanding the situation comes with time. In this case, a loving person acts nobly. He goes to the sacrifice, believing that his best choice will suffer now and let this love go to find the person who can give it to him. Of course, not everyone is happy with this nobility. Some still come to the conclusion that it is better to be with your loved ones to accept, to accept it than to live without it. But in most cases, people recognize that this parting has benefited those for whom such an act was accomplished. Probably, this is the most sad reason for loving people to part. In fact, in this case everything can be fixed, but, unfortunately, the second person rarely understands when and how to do it. He demands his own, he will become desperate for parting and does not understand that it was for him that the man practically refused his life and his own happiness. And when it comes to consciousness, it's too late to change anything.