1. Meetings with friends and acquaintances. Positive moments : your child somehow needs to be introduced to friends of parents, especially if they have children. So the child can find a new friend or girlfriend. In addition, the kid learns how to behave as guests. Negative points : Children are incredible conservatives, they perceive everything new and unfamiliar with "bayonets". Therefore, the crumb can breakdown and ruin your meeting. In addition, not all adults know how to behave with children. Some of your friends, unwittingly, may frighten the little girl, or tire him with excessive "sissy". Conclusion: Sometimes it is worth taking a child with him to a meeting with friends, but not always. First, consider what kind of people will be present, and secondly, if you decide to still bring your child with you, then let it be for a while. If a long meeting is to take place, it is better to leave the baby at home with his grandmother, and you will be better off to unwind and rest from the hassle.
2. Shopping trips to the shops. Positive moments : Krokha has the opportunity to consider new items for him, thus learning something new for himself. And thanks to such trips, the karapuz will know where toys, bread, newspapers and other things are bought. Negative points : your child can very quickly become bored. He will begin to whine, be capricious, may even fall into hysterics, demanding to buy him something. Another significant drawback: among a large crowd of people, it is very easy and quick to catch any viral infection. Conclusion: During peak hours and in winter, during periods of epidemics, refrain from visiting stores with the child. At another time, when you need to make purchases, and the kid is upset, distract him with something, offer to help you make purchases.
3. Cases related to securities. (For example, going to the housing office, a bank, mail, etc.). Positive moments : Kroha will be useful to get acquainted with such "adult" places and learn a lot for yourself. He will see how the postman works, the employee of the housing office and the bank, and will extract many new impressions. Negative points: Quite often in such institutions there are queues. It's unlikely to please your little girl. Most likely, in a few minutes he will become bored. Your child will begin to be capricious and cry. As a result, the whole trip will result in a spoiled mood of the mother and child, and, most likely, the matter is unlikely to be settled. Conclusion: in such institutions, take your baby with them only if they are sure that the matter will be settled quickly and there will be no queues.
4. Trekking in a cafe or restaurant. Positive moments : Kroha will try new dishes for himself, get new impressions. It will be useful for him to get into a new situation for him, because he will not stay at home all the time - sooner or later he needs to learn how to behave in public places.
Negative points : The karapuz, of course, not specifically, but can break a glass or a plate, sprinkle pepper and salt. In addition, many babies are delighted with the smearing of food on the table, but waiters such a spectacle is unlikely to like. In addition, not all restaurants and cafes, unfortunately, have non-smoking rooms, and the child does not need to smell tobacco smoke. Conclusion: You can sometimes take a kid to a cafe or restaurant, but only on condition that they do not smoke. It will be quite remarkable if the hall is equipped with children's playgrounds, high chairs for feeding and other devices specially for children.