Secular life has always been considered a tribute to fashion. But does this sweet side of life always have positive qualities and does not harbor reefs? To be honest, this is most likely a game in which only the one who sets its rules is counting on the right to become an honorable winner.
Life held by the people
On the question: "Can we meet in the evening?", The man constantly gives an indefinite answer, referring to the constant employment: the presentation of a new fashion collection, the opening of a new restaurant, etc. Here it is-a beautiful life in all its glory. So, let's still try to find out what nasamom is "secular life" from itself.
In the mass consciousness, a secular man is simply a carefree "party-goer" who lives day and night on all sorts of receptions. In reality, "secularity" is, first of all, a social status, which is determined by the personal merits of a person. The second condition is publicity: the person in his circle should be a recognizable and famous person. And finally, he must be ready always to be under close scrutiny. As the saying goes: "The situation binds to this!".
Secular life is an integral part of existence for the stars of show business and politicians. And for most businessmen, a visit to a variety of presentations is comparable to everyday work.
But it also happens that the output is not at all conditioned by the production need. Such fans of parties are often ridiculed. By the way, social life can carry in itself much more than just a pleasantly spent time!
We fly to the light
Expanding the horizon. Of course, social life is not only at night: apart from visiting all sorts of "parties", the notion of secular life includes hiking, concerts, fashion shows, etc. You can not only get acquainted with synthetic people, but also discover a lot of new things. Of course, not everyone will be able to join the ranks of the prestigious yacht club (here everything depends on the culinary finances). But everyone can become a member, for example, of the International Women's Club. The main thing is to be fluent in English.
Establishment of business ties . According to Philippe de Carrier, the classic of French wire diplomacy: "The success of life depends on the ability to communicate with influential people by 85% or 15% of your level of professionalism." The first does not exclude the second! That's just for this reason, someone collects stamps, someone wines, and someone useful people. A social event is an excellent opportunity to communicate in a pleasant atmosphere with those with whom, as a rule, it always takes a long time to agree on a meeting.
"Illumination" in society. If your profession implies "publicity", then appearing in the light, you can become a recognizable person. But only for this it is necessary to consolidate its appearance in the pages of its professional achievements.
Strengthening the image . Our image can positively affect our passive participation in one of the important events. You can always mention that you attended a social event with a celebrity. Any mention of yourself in the context of "stars" reflects the rays of light on you.
Good rest ! Nobody forbids from the heart to have fun at a dinner party or a hot party.
Shadows of light
Such a test by light is beyond everyone's power. And if the extroverts of such hangouts feel at ease, then introverts always adjust themselves to "easy" communication. And this is not to mention those people in whom various complexes were nested ...
"Camomile buttercups." People who have low self-esteem are always very uncomfortable among such a gaiety. And if you do not spend an hour a day for the mantra "I'm the best!", Do not rush to modunyusku. From a pair of caustic phrases and burning eyes, you try to wilt, like these flowers.
What should I do ? Find out for yourself what you can achieve by attending this event. To have a rest, to distract and learn something new? Then go ahead! And for psychological support, grab a friend with you.
"Something in the shower croaks ..." . Envy lives absolutely in all of us. However, it is much easier to struggle against this feeling than in extreme conditions (magnificent entourage, fashionably dressed like the little girls and gentlemen and general attention to their people), here the banal "toad" can be strangled.
What should I do ? Pokavashi merit does not allow you to be taken to the number of persons of the so-called "golden caste", try to look at everything as if you were from the film.
"Syndrome excellent pupil." You were an excellent pupil at school, institute, and at work you do not give up your life poses. You are just used to everywhere and in everything to be the first and do everything that was put first. But you do not feel any love for the cream of the society, and it seems to you that you are among them, because this is an indicator of your success in life.
What should I do ? Just relax, because going out is not giving a serious report. I want to rest - do it, do not want to - wrap the house in a blanket and read the book.
"Running from loneliness." With the insistence of the tax inspector, a lonely lady attends the event with slanders: "Wherever I go, just with you on the way!".
What should I do ? Among the unfamiliar people in noisy gatherings, you can feel yourself more lonely. Following the advice of psychologists, it is necessary "to select by bead" your circle of friends and to "thread" the real and close in spirit people to the thread of mutual understanding.
Add the secularities!
To date, getting on some kind of secular activity is not difficult. But with the purpose of personal benefit, it will be appropriate to imagine, in the quality of your name you are invited to a ball: to dance a mazurka or keep a fur coat. In other words, in the role of an "important person" or simply for mass character.
Following the way of life, all events are organized with the purpose of attracting and amusing people of the highest value - as they say, they are allowed here. And how to hold on to you, if nothing is known about your life to the general public, but to spend pleasantly and profitably for some time you want?
First of all, it is necessary to show all your attention and benevolence. Secondly, do not expect that you will be entertained-bring the notes of originality themselves into the traditional ritual of the event. Thirdly, even with an object of very high attention, behave uninhibitedly and ineffectively.
Remember that the people of the world have seen and experienced a lot, so it's very difficult to surprise them with anything. But they appreciate originality, confidence in everything, spontaneity, benevolence and ability to keep oneself on an equal footing with influential people. Let us recall Oscar Wilde, who said that in order to get a world-wide society, one must either feed, or entertain, or shock people! Here's to you the golden rule of how to get a success in a secular society!