Loving life without realizing that this is not an easy and not grateful occupation. This is a difficult and long process of researching one's own soul and feelings. And the approach to each life will also be special and individual.
Each of us emerges from the unknown and goes into the unknown, our duty will be to make this short journey colorful and full of love. The main thing is not to be afraid and be confident in your abilities, throw away fear, blossom bright colors, do not sit in a dense butot of isolation and stupidity. You wondered why things are going wrong, money is never enough for anything, the flu is replaced by a headache, which in turn is not short, gives way to ulcers or colitis? A series of failures, it seems, will never end. You are absolutely right. But why should it end when you do nothing for it? Even the simplest thing is to love yourself and your life as it is.
Let's think about the interconnection of several concepts that will help you understand that there is nothing complicated and terrible in understanding yourself.
About life and death
Think often about death. In order to start a normal life, of course, and not to push yourself to depression. And most importantly, to live not as they lived before, and netak, as everyone does. To live for real, to use your opportunities 100%.
How good that life does not exist without the faithful companion of death. It would seem to us impossible, unbearable madness, not exist death. What would be the ultimate meaning if it were not for death? Harmoniously complementing each other, they are so different, ideally suited to each other. Mentally imagine that the onikak is two edges or the banks of the abyss, being in the epicenter of which would mean to find eternal bliss.
What is in this abyss, and how not to find yourself in one of the extremes? A lot of people are internal, although they look quite normal. Devastated eyes, empty eyes and unsmiling faces are direct evidence. In them, life was extinguished, a breeze that could re-ignite these souls can not penetrate the shell of steel. When the breeze of love can not reach you, then everything alive and beautiful begins to die.
Just as there is a strong relationship between life and death, and not divided, there is always love and life. To live and not know what love is - already half-dead, this is the state when one does not want to get out of bed in the mornings and does not want to go to bed in the evenings, to meet sunrises and see off the sun.
At such a moment there is an all-devouring emptiness and the moment of real death comes, where the physical death is more terrible.
Pain creates life and love for her.
Life is a bustle. When we are born, it hurts when we die, we are also very hurt, we refuse to love, because we are afraid to experience pain. By such actions we are simply afraid to live. Gradually enveloping himself with a cocoon from the problems of suffering, drawing on illnesses, failures, sorrows, and sorrows.
We must not sootvosprinimat all around, we must learn to live the present and take what is happening with a closed heart and without a drop of fear. One must learn not to be afraid to feel. All life is feelings, all life is a cycle of laughter, sadness, sadness, tears, disappointments and joys. You laugh, so you live, you cry - you are alive, you can feel, and this is more valuable than anything else. Accept everything that happens with a high-lifted head, take life with open arms and see that the habit of turning life into a continuous problem will leave you forever. And there will be a myriad of days filled with joy at the end.
We are nobody until we learn how to love life
Well, we have a little cleared up with painful questions, and we will make logical conclusions together and benefit from loving ourselves and life. For the most hardened skeptics and dull persons, let's try to show examples of the benefits of such love not only for ourselves, but for humanity as a whole.
Let's remember how many geniuses the mother had on herself, how many of them are between us now, how many more will be born. Their life is a mission. The mission is to help us in hard times with our own souls. Physicists, chemists, biologists, musicians, doctors, engineers, teachers, testers and inventors. All of them loved life exactly, and very well understood how others did not like it, since so much of all the good was brought into it to brighten it for the worst skeptics. Physicians have been and continue to search for medications for depression and nervous disorders, which we receive from dislike of life. The inventors create a new one and improve what is available so that we can rejoice at least such small things, since we do not understand how much was given to us from the moment when we first saw the world.
Love in the heart
It must be remembered that the main pledge of harmony with the world is its correct display in your heart. The ancient parable, in this example, will help to understand the words.
Passing by a small oasis in the desert, the young man decided to look there and drink some water. The old man was sitting on a rugged water edge, and, having got drunk, the boy began to ask about which people live here. When asked by the young man, the elder answered the question: "What people live where you lived before?". Without thinking, the guy told all about tehlyudyah, from which he recently left. Described their nasty and terrible characters, told how they are lying and envious. Then the old man assured him that he would find such people in this oasis as well. On the same day, another young man passing by the oasis greeted him and turned to the old man with the same question, to which, as in the past, the old man replied: "And what kind of people live where you live?" The young man with sadness and anguish in his eyes told how kind the people he had lived before, how hospitable they were with everyone and how friendly. Smiling, the old man assured that he would find the same people here.
A young man, who had been drinking water all day, having heard two conversations, asked in astonishment how he could give completely different answers to the same question. After thinking, old-fashioned - our heart is an amazing creation, we see only what we carry. A person can not find anything good anywhere, if he can not find such a place in all places he has just visited.
We often hear end-of-the-world exposures. People who distribute this, see only the darkness into which they themselves sink. But if you believe another genius, the well-known Einstein - there is no darkness at all, darkness is just the absence of light. For us, this light is love. All-consuming, boundless, kind and majestic.
The only love in the world is the only immortal being. And while it is between us, as long as it exists, there is life.