Sex is not entirely at will, simply because the time has come. So often argue teenage girls. "All my girlfriends already ... And I will remain an old maid, if I do not immediately engage with someone with sex. I'm already fifteen! "
Indeed , in our chaotic time, values have changed irrevocably (though ...), and the phrase "to preserve innocence before the wedding night" sounds as modern as the words "gig" and "barber". And we do not at all urge you to find out what sex is, only after obtaining a stamped passport or buying shoes without pre-fitting. But - to have sex not entirely on their own, but for the sole purpose of losing their innocence, at least dishonest in relation to their partner. However, if you are twenty years old as not a teenager, and the current is still there, then it is worth thinking about: can the time really come? But all the same it should be only one - and not the first one - from the reasons.
Under a degree, you can have sex not entirely on your own. Sociological research has shown an amazing thing: every third woman after drinking alcohol perceives sex as a completely logical conclusion of dating. And then often wakes up in the morning, painfully trying to remember the name of a neighbor on the bed. By the way, a disgusting feeling. Moreover, some ladies even remember with difficulty that they were in a global sense yesterday, not to mention such trifles as security. So in wine, perhaps there is a chance to find the truth, but sex is better to look for a sober head.
Sex from curiosity
Suppose he is a star. World-wide, national or regional - it does not matter. By and large, he does not like you very much, but here ambition wakes up. If it dries half the world (half of the nation, half of the district) - you just have to check whether they really have reason to be so killed ... I want to ask: why? We warn at once: you can not amuse vanity! You will be immediately recorded in "one of ...", and the effect will be directly opposite. Well, if you just want to replenish your collection - go ahead. Just keep in mind that you will just become a replenishment of someone's collection.
You can do sex simply because you do not have to be alone. You consent to sex, not at all burning with passion, but only in the hope that it can be the "one and only" with which you will live your whole life, and then you will leave this cruel world in one day, arms? Well, there's a chance. One in ten million. So you can take a chance. Just do not forget that you have 9.999.999. probabilities to get unfulfilled expectations. In addition, the options when a woman agrees to sex for the sake of prospects to have something in the future (be it marriage, a fur coat or just money) is usually called a bad word.
Sex with the "former"
There is no reason to try to enter the river, which you have already melted along and across. It is not necessary to entertain yourself with hopes that he will return. Do not go on about him: "I'm so sick, my dear, oh, how bad, but let's go to that crib!". It is naive to take pleasure in thinking "think, and what's wrong?". We can not have sex without emotions. And very rarely (very much!), We do not get into emotional dependence on our partner. It's unlikely that you want to be again depending on your "ex", do not you?
By the way ... Because I really want to. And in general, in order not to rack your brains, to gut your favorite subconscious in search of irrational reasons prompting for immediate sex, just tell yourself honestly: "I go to bed with him, because ..." And any continuation of this phrase, except "... I really want to ", should serve as a reason for refusal.