So, you and your young man decided to diversify and make something new in your sex life. Well, that's quite a meaningful desire. To implement this venture, you can use a lot of ways. One of them is sex without penetration, that is, when the male sexual organ is not introduced into the woman's vagina.
Penetration (this is what is called sex without penetration, especially shy people) undoubtedly occupies one of the main places in the sexual life of partners. There are situations where it is not possible to engage in ordinary sex, but you really want to get sexual pleasure. In this case, to help you come to contactless sex, or, as it is also called - sex without penetration.
To a kind of such sex is oral sex. It's no secret that the caresses of the genital organs of the strong half of mankind are called fellatio, and the feminine ones are cunnilingus.
Undoubtedly, for aerobatics is the posture of sixty-nine, when both partners are given the opportunity to simultaneously enjoy each other.
If in oral caresses you have moved not so far, it is never too late to change the situation. What is true mastery? You can master various techniques of the seks, and not be able to deliver a true pleasure to the partner. To be shy of the oral sex is not necessary, by this you show your partner that you are not ready to accept it completely.
The main thing is to be attentive and watch what your partner gets pleasure from. Listen to how the partner's body responds to those or other caresses. Do what gives him more pleasure. Over time, learn everything that your lover will be crazy about.
Other types of non-contact sex include peting or imitation of a sexual act. This method is safe and does not require any special skills. The most interesting is that petting is an ideal option for couples who have not yet entered into a full-fledged sexual life, and to oral caresses are deliberately.
So, what is petting and what does it eat? Everything is simple. The partners start caressing themselves the same way as at the beginning of a regular sexual intercourse-they kiss each other, touching in the most intimate places. You can be excited by any means-use your imagination. During the prelude, you can actively play with your sexual organs on the partner's sexual organs. So you can pretty quickly reach orgasm without introducing a penis.
Petting involves not only rubbing the genital organs. You can use for this purpose any parts of the body, everything from which you will receive a treat.
The advantages of petting are that they can be practiced without taking off their clothes. For example, you can surrender to the pleasure in the park or the entrance of the house, the main thing is that there are not any people nearby. By the way, for information you can add that sex, in which the man reaches orgasm with the help of female hands, is called manual.
If you have a stable long-term relationship and are visexually active, you can engage in mutual masturbation. Not everyone agrees to such an even older age, but the refusals are mostly related to the complexes.
By the way, women are more prone to complexes. They are afraid that they will look stupid, the shortcomings of the figure will be visible to the partner, so they hide the manifestations of true passion, because they can not relax.
The most comfortable posture with mutual masturbation is to sit down against each other. Lying, and in other poses to do this will be problematic.
Doctors - sexologists say that joint masturbation helps partners show how much they like the sexual organs of their partner, express their openness and love.
If you dare to take such a step, namely, want to do masturbation, listen to a few tips.
To begin with, masturbation can be done in the dark, so as not to embarrass each other and be able to relax.
You can use a lubricant that will lubricate the unpleasant parts. It is possible that you will be hard to get excited.
Another way to avoid embarrassment is to masturbate the personfriend to a friend, covered with a sheet.
The main thing is not to be shy. We must learn this. Believe me, at first everything was shy, but today they are having great sex. Stop being afraid of your partner, he is also embarrassed. There is only you and he and no one else, so use this moment.
Whichever method of obtaining pleasure you decide to use, remember - do not forcefully force a partner. Only the agreement of both partners will help to get a truly magical experience and enjoy the process.