You will not believe, but most couples break up not because of lack of money, housing problems or constant quarrels. People run from boredom and everyday, routine life. They simply do not have enough new impressions, sharpness of feelings and banal domestic variety. And even without variety in bed and for a long time no union will not last. Especially this "novelty" is important for men. So we, women, have to constantly maintain interest in ourselves in all ways available to us. And why, in fact, have? After all, this can and should be done with pleasure, getting its share of buzz. Here are just a few tips on how not to turn sex into a routine. Everything is ridiculously simple. And the result - see for yourself ...
1. Be confident in yourself.
This is the sexiest thing any woman can do - take control of her life and be sure what she wants, when and how. Men by nature are hunters, but a truly strong woman is a worthy "trophy" of any of them. In fact, the trophy is himself, without even guessing about it.
2. Enjoy the bodies of each other.
Give each other compliments on appearance, make your man feel welcome and sexy. Confidence in your attractiveness is sexy gold! It does not happen too much.
3. Talk about sex.
Tell your partner what you would like to bring into your sex life. How you like, in what position, in what place. Discuss details: faster-slower, lower-higher, etc. This is the most reliable way to improve the quality of your sex. Yes, there is such a concept.
4. Do not ignore the prelude!
Do not forget that foreplay is the most important part of your sex life. Make sure that you have enough time for love games before having sex. Drag the time. Make your partner burn with passion, with desire and impatience. This is the very moment about which many couples simply forget. And very, very in vain.
5. Surprise your partner.
Dress new sexy lingerie in the evening after work and in this form expect it. Do not let him touch himself, dominate, and when his desire reaches the limit - march into the bedroom!
6. Drink plenty of coffee.
Studies have shown that several cups of coffee may well enhance a female libido. Even if this does not give a 100% guarantee, caffeine will improve your concentration - this is very important for the effect of a "hot bedroom".
7. Turn off the TV.
Of course, sometimes it is extremely interesting to watch the development of the plot of endless series, but it completely kills your passion. Make an effort, press the shutdown button and pay attention to each other.
8. Dance the striptease.
It does not have to look professional, the main thing is to move seductively in front of it and slowly take off your clothes. Do not let him touch himself - it will ignite him even more.
9. Choose the right music.
The right musical background can greatly enhance the degree of passion in your bedroom. The rhythm and sensuality of music will make your lovemaking much more enjoyable. Try, for example, the following track: Marvin Gaye's Healing - this is for beginners.
10. Try the ice.
If you are having oral sex with your boyfriend, try holding an ice cube in your mouth while doing this. Feelings will be unforgettable! The contrast from warm to cold will drive him crazy again and again.
11. Eat salmon.
Obviously, this is an excellent choice for lunch, but salmon is also known as a powerful aphrodisiac. Vitamins in salmon meat will help to remove the libido, it also contains omega-3 oils that enhance the mood, and protein for endurance.
12. Close your eyes.
In fact, this is one more step forward - to learn to blindfold each other. Get rid of the sense of vision, and you will be forced to use all other kinds of feelings. You will be surprised by your new feelings.
13. Tease him.
Strengthen his tension throughout the day, sending him unambiguous messages. Tell him what you want to do with him, and what you want him to do with you.
14. Walk on high heels.
Very few men can resist seeing a woman in heels. Moreover, recent studies show that the heel can do real miracles, making your legs slim and even, and the gait seductive and feminine. It's guaranteed.
15. Think of a dirty story.
The story should not be epic, but try to use the dirtiest erotic details in it that you can only come up with. It may seem strange, but just do it. The man will react instantly - you will see it. A hot night of love is assured to you.
16. Sometimes it's useful to fool around.
Men like all "bestial" - whether it's flogging, tying or flopping each other with a whip. You can use disguise, or even walk without panties under your skirt. You can whisper to him about your secret sexual desires when you are in the center of a large crowd.
17. Take a bath together.
Muffle the light, light the candles, use the captivating aroma of essential oils. This is another way to get close to each other and create a pleasant sexual tension. If, of course, your bathroom is large enough for this. Wash each other - it can be very erotic and you significantly diversify your sex life. And get pleasure.
18. Take a picture of each other in bed.
You can use a digital camera or just an ordinary mobile phone - it does not matter. You will be surprised, but this is a very effective form of foreplay. Look at the photos, make compliments to each other. Get a lot of fun.
19. Use feathers.
Take a pair of feathers and stroke them during prelude. Feeling them on your skin, you will be pierced by a sexual shiver. It is an act of tenderness on the eve of a stormy night.
20. Undress each other.
Undressing can be very sexy, especially if you pre-dress seductive underwear. It should not only look, but also be sensual to the touch.
21. Massage each other.
Undoubtedly, touches should be soft and sensual. The pose here is not important, but the mood is important, the strength of desire is important. Foot massage can also be very erotic. You should definitely learn it. So you can massage each other whenever you want.
22. Change the scenery.
Try to turn the hall into a scene for some actions. For example, for erotic dances. Or arrange a bed of love there, sketching beautiful decorative pillows and fluffy blankets right on the floor. Do a permutation - it always introduces novelty not only in the interior, but also in the relationship.
23. Try a new position in sex.
We all serve our habits and, therefore, trust certain positions more than others. But try something new. For example, have sex standing up. Well, or so, as you have never tried. You can always give vent to your imagination.
24. In front of the mirror.
Having sex before a mirror can be very erotic. If you do not have a mirror in the bedroom, try moving from one room to another. Many women have never seen their genitals! You can undress in front of the mirror in turn to see all the charms of each other.
25. Pose 69.
This is a tried and true technique, but if you've never tried it before, now is the time. In the end, what could be better than sharing oral sex ?! Hardly anyone will argue with this.
26. Dress up the costumes.
Find out what each of you finds sexy. Whether it's the shape of a French maid or something else. Then just put on a suitable suit for the plot, and he will do everything for you. You both will have a tremendous pleasure.
27. Study each other's bodies.
Sexual zones are not only below the navel and above the knees. Studying each other's bodies from head to foot, you can find new erogenous zones, the touch of which will give you both a maximum of pleasure.
28. Use the vibrator.
The vibrator in your bedroom can have a tremendous effect. Whether you use it on a partner, or let it use it on you - it does not matter. The main thing - away from the restraint and complexes. You will be surprised how many sweet minutes you lost, being afraid for some reason to use a vibrator in sex.
29. Take the grease.
The use of lubricant is not only convenient, but also useful - there is no unpleasant friction, unnecessary injuries and unpleasant sensations. Moreover, lubrication can make sensations more sensual.
30. Try aphrodisiacs.
The question of whether they work or not remains open to debate. But it definitely adds something of a prelude, if you feed each other with asparagus or drink champagne. Just remember that sex is a pleasure, not a holiday of the stomach.
31. Try computer sex.
Nightly sending of sexual electronic messages can be very fun and add novelty to your relationship. Instant messaging can be even better, because you do it in real time. Just make sure that neither of you is somewhere where it's easy to overlook it!
32. Strengthen the pelvic muscles!
This is what you have to do before you reach the bedroom. Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles will improve blood flow to the genitals - this will make your orgasms more powerful and long.
33. Keep order in the bedroom.
In whatever good mood you are not - it immediately disappears, as soon as you stumble in the bedroom about your son's toy car or find dolls under the blanket. All this can easily put a cross on passion. Remember that your bedroom should be your personal space, free of trash and any strangers! Even a TV in the bedroom can ruin your libido.
34. More kisses!
The kiss on the lips is the most exciting action that you can imagine .. The lips are very sensitive and, kissing your partner, you overwhelm him with a wave of passion. Try to spend some time, just surrendering to kisses. You will be surprised how exciting and pleasant it is. This is a truly powerful technique for foreplay.
35. Remove the home video.
Take a video camera with you to your bedroom. Set it so that it covers the entire "zone of action". Or connect it to the TV so that you can watch the video as you go. You will be amazed at how much this is erotic. And the recording can, after a while, refresh your feelings in bed.
These tips, of course, are not exact instructions for use. You can improvise, find interesting solutions. The main thing - do not turn sex into a routine! This usually ends very badly. But at stake is your family happiness and a long life together.