According to sexologists, such concepts as female orgasm and simulation have become an integral part of the sexual life of a large number of couples. Research in this area argues that among women who have ever feigned orgasm, 75% of them resorted to pretense up to 50 times in their intimate life. At the same time, 10% of those polled simulate an orgasm all the time. What is noteworthy, the reasons for such actions of women have long been known to specialists.
Desire to finish sooner
The most common reason for the simulation of women's orgasm is the desire to quickly end the sexual act. Pretense in this case is a method to hurry the partner. His woman has already "satisfied", it's time to reach orgasm and myself.
Very often the simulation of orgasm can be caused if the intimacy with a man for a woman is not welcome. Perhaps, the decision about communication was taken under pressure or her thoughts are occupied with some problems. Troubles at work, a hard day, a child's illness - all this can cause imitation of orgasm, in order to end an act of intimacy. All these moments distract the woman, do not allow to relax and have fun. Therefore, an intimate relationship is seen by a woman as performing special duties along with other family and household responsibilities. This causes her desire to finish sooner.
An important factor is the problems of women with health. If sex makes a woman more sensitive, the simulation of orgasm allows her to stop and relax. In addition, there are cases when a woman's orgasm causes a woman's pain and discomfort. Women with this problem often resort to solitary self-gratification. Therefore, during sexual intercourse, feigning orgasm, they tend to ensure that at least their partner feels good.
Orgasm as a sign of gratitude
The next common cause of imitation of orgasm is the woman's desire for something to thank his man. For example, upon returning home, a woman is waiting for a romantic dinner prepared by her partner or some valuable gift. And even if a woman has no mood for sex, she does it as a token of gratitude, as a result of which she simulates orgasm.
Following stereotypes
Sometimes the woman's feigned actions are explained by her reluctance to look frigid. All the mass media around only do what they say about the problems of frigidity, which can cause a woman to attribute this problem to herself. In addition, modern society says that the real sexuality of a woman should be expressed in her constant desire for sex. Trying to follow these stereotypes, the woman resorts to imitation of orgasm.
Do they notice a man's simulation
It is difficult to answer this question unequivocally. Everything depends on the observance of the man and the actor's abilities of his partner. The behavior and sensations of each person are individual. And every orgasm of the same person can manifest itself in different ways. There are men who are very anxious about the issue of female orgasm, which forces them to look for some answers on specialized sites or in literature. After that, they try to recognize their partner's signs of real orgasm. And if at least one of the "points" is absent, such a man can blame the woman for simulation, even if there was a true orgasm. But fortunately these curious men are not enough.
Harm to the female body
Doctors have long confirmed the fact that imitating a woman with an orgasm can cause her body significant harm. Such a physiological discharge is necessary and useful for a woman. And this applies not only to physical, but also mental health. In addition, if a partner for many years of relationships once exposed a woman in pretense, this can give a serious break in their relationship.