Stamp in the passport changes a lot?

To be honest, I want to get married. I can tell anyone. I do not want that enough already, that the registry office ugly curtains and aunties, that brides look like cake, and from them get fat.
1 The stamp in the passport does not change anything
Usually it's men talking. more precisely, boys who do not want to get married. They are wrong in form - they could not lie to themselves or the girl. But right as a matter of fact. The wedding does not solve the problems that arose before it. The fact that you have a different surname does not make you a different person. and he did not change his surname ... If you were annoyed before marriage, that he is greedy or in drunkenness becomes an asshole, or hopes for the opinion of his mother even in matters of intimacy, then he will become annoyed in marriage. you will quarrel on the same topics that have arisen in the unmarried state, well, the minus "Why do not you marry me?"
This does not mean that a greedy drinking mama's son should throw a registry office near the doorstep (or is it still necessary?). But to reproach him that after the wedding he did not turn into an ideal husband. - all the same that to reproach him that after receiving a visa to Japan he did not become Japanese. I decided to live with this person - live. I did not decide - think about it and postpone the question "Why do not you marry me?"
2 The stamp in the passport changes a lot
The girl, as a rule, needs to be married. It is necessary to feel. that you have been chosen. That everything is serious and for a long time - at least, according to plan. But many are not ready for one important problem: Now what to expect. And meanwhile, there are four months after the wedding - and life begins simply. And yesterday's brides find themselves in a dead end: girlfriends are shown rings and photographs near the eternal flame; on "Facebook" for not not reached the audience appeared status "in marriage"; the hand has learned to derive a new signature ... And now?
and now we must go back, the day you were offered. What is important to you? To be married or in it? If the first - think more. If the second - do not worry and go plan, for example, leave or tickets to the theater for you and your husband. Just to have something to wait.