In addition, if it belongs to the category of bitter truths, it is extremely difficult to take such a "pill". Especially if it is given to us such ardent adherents of "truth in the forehead."
To the ardent adherents of "truth in the forehead" is the "truth-lyubka." You adore not so much the truth, as an opportunity to share it, to "open your eyes" to others around everything that they themselves did not notice. Especially you are interested in the medical effect of taking a bitter medicine. Having met a girlfriend in the street who recently became a mother, you, rounding up your eyes to horror, immediately told her how terrible, just to impropriety, she got fat. And immediately she began to advise miraculous diets and special exercises, adding, however, that they will become available to the "poor thing" only when she finishes feeding the baby with a breast.
And when your friend's husband had a stupid and short-lived romance, you immediately notified the deceived wife, and at the same time notified all the common acquaintances about the incident and launched a campaign to save the family.
A characteristic phrase : "True bitter is better than sweet lies!" Actually ... No, sometimes it's not any better. However, criticized fattened girlfriend next time, seeing you, just go to the other side of the street. But unable to withstand the received horse dose of "truth in the forehead," the deceived wife took a large dose of sleeping pills, and only thanks to a lucky chance the matter did not end tragically ... The ardent adherents of "truth-loving" tend to sincerely wish to win the love and respect of others. And they tell a bitter truth from really good motives. But in their desire to be honest, they often do not pay attention to "trifles". Indeed, why are there any special words to pick, time convenient to seek out, interlocutor to prepare? But sometimes love for the unveiling of bitter truth has a more unsightly reason. The sources of the desire to bask in the fire of flushed emotions (even if the "firewood" in it - someone else's pain) is unconscious envy, personal unhappiness and even just too emotional in terms of life.
"Pravdo Borka" also refers to ardent followers of "truth in the forehead." You are simply afraid of your friendly team: you go everywhere on time, carry out tasks on time, and always (!), Branding irreconcilably all those who are not so ideal in official zeal. Your desire for truth extends to the appearance of colleagues, and their opinions. For example, even in a deep childhood in the book on housekeeping, you deducted that "red and green is not combined" and - at least get a grip on Lagerfeld and Carden! And also those of colleagues who ventured to appear in something like that to your eyes. At the meeting, you will not fail to inform everyone about everything that you think about the periodic delays of one, about the regular mistakes of the other, about the "non-creativity" of the third ... The characteristic phrase: "We must fight for the truth!" In fact ... As a rule, such ardent supporters of fighters for truth - people are not realized in life. Or at work, their functions are limited purely technical operations, or at home for the eternal muttering of the wife-mother, none of the households react. The only way to attract attention is to start a fight for "truth in the forehead." And, as a rule, not so much the result as the process is important. In clinical cases, it comes to the principle of hunger strikes and litigation.
"Truth-cutting" - one of the ardent adherents of "truth in the forehead." You generally say little, but always just what you think. When your old aunt gave you a hand-embroidered set of napkins for her birthday, you laughed right into the old woman's face: "God, aunt, where did you get this scrap ?!" And when your colleague asked for advice on her advertising mock-up, she heard a lazy response : "You know, the creative is not your strongest place. I would have been busy with something simpler and would not have braked either to myself or to people. " Most importantly, you were absolutely right: both the aunt's embroidery and the advertising model of the colleague were useless. But ... A characteristic phrase: "What's this? I said the truth !!! "Actually ... Elementary callousness and spiritual laziness. Well, I do not want a person to "bother" over how his words can be perceived by others! The only advantage of such "truth-rude" can be considered that to criticize in their address they are quite calm. Just do not take other people's words.
Of course, everyone has the right to know reliable information and, above all, about himself. But you can not imply it to him. Therefore, it is not necessary to impose oneself on the truth - you do not have such powers. And then, where is the guarantee that the truth that you know is really the truth?