If everything is fine in your intimate life, and the partner is able to deliver no less pleasure than the first time, do not think that it will be forever. Sex is a constant search and experiment. Stability in intimate relationships is fraught with either a "march to the side" (and this is the minimum evil), or a banal rupture of relations.
Paradoxical sex, or Just karetsa
Sexologists around the world warn of the dangers of "habits" in bed. They advise to discard hypocritical views, false modesty and often look in adult stores, such as in RussianSexShop.com. But if a couple (or one of the partners) is not yet ready to "play" in a crib with toys, turn into a mistress and a slave or try all available afrozodiacs, then use the new technique of sex, karetsa, which by and large is a "greeting" from the 60's, x of the last century.
It was then that the Italian sexologist, Dr. Alice Stockham, offered ... a technique of abstinence from orgasm. No, no, do not worry, no one offers you to engage in self-masochism from the lack of orgasm. But to inflame passion, forget about frigidity, go to bed and get up with the idea of this partner and even after decades of living together again to plunge into the honeymoon of karetsa will certainly help. So what kind of an ordinary miracle, about which in Russia, alas, almost do not know anything? The Italians are a passionate people. That is why the proposed technique is recognized to return even adult people during adolescence, when sex was passive, and desire - unrestrained. But despite this many girls-boys did not part with virginity (a strange word for a young man, is not it?). And yet, an adult couple can easily "fall into sexual adolescence," recalling touching touches, kisses on the cheek, or an inconspicuous (adorable) gliding glance over the figure and "separate places" of the partner. The lack of orgasm, as the peak of pleasure and the momentary anticipation of the culmination - the sexual dualism of virgin youth, advocated by adherents of karetsa.
3 rules karetsa, or Return super-sex
Let's say right away, to return the honeymoon to a couple who lived together for many years, but "froze" sexual relations, it takes 3-4 weeks. During this time, as if I did not want to, but you can not end sex orgasm! In this case, it is necessary to observe 3 conditions:
- to have sex only after a spiritual mood;
- in the "childish" days to give up intimacy;
- to observe strong-willed control over orgasm (the rule of the "pool of desires").
So, the first point can be deciphered very simply - the sexual act is not a prelude to sleep, but the ending of a romantic evening. For this, you can wander along the evening (daytime) streets together. Or dinner at home, by candlelight. Or even just write each other a romantic letter (let in electronic form). Or send SMS of unambiguous content: "I love, I wait, I want!". By the way, it would be nice if the "flowers of passion", the children, stayed with their grandmother on this day or slept soundly for at least an hour.
With the second paragraph, everything seems to be clear. But if you believe in contraceptives, like the people of the East in the Buddha, then close your eyes to point number 2 and passionately engage in an unreasonable slow sex. You ask, if the climax is not, why do you need a condom? Yes, you know, just in case, but suddenly you can not hold out: the theory, of course, is good, but life is so many-sided ... The most strange, eccentric is the last, third point. The author of the technique defines the concept of the "pool of desires" as an emotional state when there are no more forces to endure. Those. when mutual caresses (even podnadoevshih each other partners) can no longer end orgasm. When voluntary abstinence from the culmination of intimate pleasures is impossible. When at least burst, but still there will be an orgasm! Laski with subsequent abstinence is a sexual paradox that prolongs the marriage, relieves frigidity and gives a truly unearthly bliss. Do not believe me? And you try! Be exterminated one day from the intimate grayness of the habit and forever remain a sexually-temperamental couple: an experiment capable of adoring toys for adults and enjoying excellent, passionate sex!