The child does not play toys

All children usually do not imagine their lives without toys. Therefore, parents always delight their child with new purchases of various machines for a boy or dolls for a girl. But there are times when a child does not play toys. With what it is connected and how to solve this problem, we will try to find out today.

In your apartment there is simply nowhere to step foot - all around are some toys. But, despite this "kingdom of toys," the child whines and constantly cries that he has nothing to play. Very often, when a child does not play toys - this frustrates many parents. Although in this situation there is absolutely nothing surprising. Think for yourself, because you also often get bored of your clothes, jewelry, etc., even if it's all bought in exclusive stores and has an original appearance. It's just that you carry it day in, day out, that's the conclusion. But in this situation, we do not say that if your baby stops being interested in his toys, you should immediately, without fail, go to the store for new ones. Here the most important thing is if the child does not play dolls or cars, teach him to do it.

So, to begin with, in this situation, pay special attention to how the kid plays toys and treats them. Thanks to this, you, as parents, will be able to evaluate all its possibilities, both psychological and physical. After that you can safely offer your child their own individual plans or game plots. In your story, you can lose any fairy tale or favorite cartoon of the child from the very beginning to the end, and so on. And it's all done by playing with the same toys. Believe me, such a story is sure to interest your child. By the way, this game will help your child develop a fantasy of independence and open up new frontiers of independence for him. Also worth noting is the fact that such a game, where the main character is your script, you, the child and toys, can bring tremendous benefits.

By the way, with the help of a staged game you can achieve a lot from the child. And this all instead of constant reading of notations and regular punishments. Just imagine how tired your child is from regular, self-explanatory reminders, in which you systematically talk about how you need to behave properly (for example, at a table). It's just very boring and monotonous for the baby. In this situation, it would be nice to offer the child to play, for example, in a restaurant or cafe. But the routine and boring work around the house, in the face of washing dishes or cleaning your room, you can easily turn a child into a game for the same, for example, "Daughters-mothers" (well, or the master's dad, or, even better, cleanliness a hero from a favorite cartoon or a fairy tale). Know, playing in such role-playing games, your child will be happy to help you and it will certainly diversify his leisure time. Plus, it will help the child to understand their responsibilities and opportunities in the person of a "small family member".

It will not be superfluous to supplement the fact that at preschool age, for most children, a very important role in life is played not by playing the toys themselves, but playing in the adult person. With this method, children always try to comprehend, the world of adults desired for them. It is in this game that the child has clearly drawn out her storyline, characters, her own individual role. And it all fuses with an easy tinsel of children's wonders and magic. That's it at this moment, your child needs a variety of toys, which very much fit under real objects from adult life. For example, sets of "young doctor", schoolboy, teacher, seller in the store (imitating products and weights), materials for construction (Lego designers, cubes, various figures), cars, ships, airplanes, sets of dishes for "children's cuisine " and much more. Also in this age period of the child, do not forget about the toys that help develop the baby's dexterity and coordination. Here you can include: balls, jumpers, skipping ropes and so on. But we completely do not recommend to forget about puppets, soldiers and soft toys.

Of course, it often happens that any toys, no matter how colorful they are interesting and fun, cease to please the baby, and he just does not play in them. This, as a rule, happens with the usual toys. For example, a toy cart with horses is a toy car with horses. In this case, there are always two ways to revive the child's interest in the game. In the first case, you can offer the child with him, or let him, independently, make a toy with his own hands. And in the second case, you just need to add the game to the toys with the help of various additions. These additions, for example, can become a variety of extraordinary items from the life of parents: empty boxes or bottles of perfume, cosmetics or something else that the child can transport in the same vehicle with horses or a car. A girl can easily use, as cosmetics for dolls. But from various pieces of cloth, boxes from something, you can design for a child, a palace, or make an outfit for a doll. And best of all, if the kid does it with his own hands. In this case, he will certainly want to play in his "personal invention". By the way, with the help of such outstanding items, you can paint the "children's world" very colorfully, in which they will play an important role, complementing toys.

And yet, if the child does not play or refuses toys, play with it together. Remember that for your child the best game is playing with your parents. By the way, it is not superfluous to note that in order for a child to always be "in the excitement" and enjoy the game - let him win as often as possible from you. This is one of the basic rules of playing the child with adults.

And last, never buy toys in order to satisfy the vagaries of the baby. Such toys most often bother children, but toys-surprises, on the contrary for a long time, please the child. In general, I want to say that let the toys be smaller, but the love and attention of parents is much greater. Good luck to you!