Separating twins from primary school?

If one child in the family is an indescribable joy, and if two are a double joy! But the troubles are also double. But now it's time to give the kids to school. Parents are often concerned that they do not know how to solve the problem: should the twins study together or not? And is it necessary to separate children during school years?
Until quite recently, scientists believed that it was impossible to separate the twins. It will hurt the psyche of children. But at the present time, science has advanced far, and now the psychological type of attachment of twins is on the first place. And only after the definition of the psychotype can solve the issue of separation of children.

Psychologically, psychologists divide twins and twins into three groups:

"Connected closely." It will be very difficult for these children to study alone. They try to copy each other in absolutely everything. Always from the pair, one is the leader, and the other is the slave.

"Clear individualists." These children constantly experience confrontation with each other. Even with a clear similarity of opinions and interests, they are constantly looking for an excuse for a quarrel. Everyone in the couple wants to be a leader.

"Dependents are moderately." This type is the golden mean. Children perfectly communicate. The individuality of each plays a big role here.

Look closely at your children and try to determine their psychotype. And make the right conclusion, to separate your children from school or not. But remember that there are recommendations for each type.

Psychologists recommend:
"Closely related" twins during separation in primary school will experience severe discomfort, so it is not recommended to separate them. Separation will definitely affect their learning in a bad way. They will not be able to enter the training rhythm for a long time. They will find it difficult to find friends, they will refuse to communicate with the teacher and classmates. But the teacher and parents should ensure that children communicate with other schoolchildren, and not become isolated in their own circle.

It will be very good if every child is picked up in a circle. Mugs must necessarily be different. But in secondary school, twins can learn in parallel classes. Teens of separation can survive quite calmly.

"Explicit individualists" in the school must necessarily be divided into classes. They and the house very much get tired of communication. In the classroom everyone will try to somehow stand out. If one will make progress in school, then the second will simply break the lessons! But children will grow up, gradually this competition will pass.

"Moderately dependent" twins will not suffer from separation from the siblings. It is very important for them that at school they are evaluated individually, they turn to each by name. They will not transfer their merits or failures to another.

We make a decision
Before making a final decision, talk with the children, ask their opinion. And, of course, consult a good psychologist. Most experts do not advise to separate children at the beginning of the training. Many students from twin pairs, learning together, perfectly show their individual abilities and creative thinking.

It happens that children conflict only in school, and houses never quarrel. Parents should always get a consultation from the teacher, talk to him. It is possible that classmates play a negative role here, setting them up against each other. And the transfer of one sable to another class will not solve anything.

It is necessary to ask the teacher and psychologist to work with the team, the result, as a rule, is positive. The relationship between the twins and the class will change for the better. But in a difficult situation it is desirable to transfer the children to another educational institution.

Sometimes during separation, children begin to be capricious, get sick, they have terrible dreams, they become nervous. It is so difficult for them to endure separation from their neighbor. These students must study together before graduation.

If you are not completely sure that children should be separated at school, then in the first class, send them together. Separate them can be in middle and high school. Part go to school, cooperate with teachers and psychologists. It will only benefit the children. They will certainly become self-sufficient and independent in life, will find their vocation.