First we need to remind you how difficult it is to teach a child how to eat properly. He for a long time refuses to hold a spoon and climbs his hands into the plate. However, this should never stop parents, all children should eat themselves. Sometimes you want to throw everything in order to avoid the poured out porridge or poured juice, but you can not do this in any way. What is happening otherwise? The child does not want to eat himself. That's the main reason - excessive care.
Parental care is fine, however, too much of it leads to unpleasant consequences. In a family with constant care and excessive love, a spoiled child is gradually brought up. He does not listen to the elders, he does not want to eat himself and will always be sure of protecting his parents. For this reason, he will not grow into a real person. You can not say that you do not need to take care of children, just everything should be in moderation. Again, when the child refuses to eat himself, you should do the right thing.
Penalties are acceptable only in rare cases, however, sometimes they have to be remembered. Every child should eat, and this applies to an early age (1 - 2 years). Gradually should bring the children to this point - more often to give a spoon in his hands, suggest how to properly hold it. Avoid spoiled food and carpets still will not succeed, but, the child will grow up healthy and well-bred. Usually it takes a long time to suffer, because in the early stages of development the child himself is constantly interested in the surrounding world. He tries to learn and try everything in his life, therefore he will also like to eat himself.
True, do not make another serious mistake - turn a spoon into a toy. Fond of things the child tries to take constantly, sometimes table objects appear in his room, where they are completely unnecessary. Such situations should be stopped, explaining to children what exactly it is necessary to do with this or that subject. It is not easy to do this, especially at an early age, if you miss this moment, your parents will face a misunderstanding, and perhaps even a grudge. Only stepping over their excessive love, close people will be able to grow a child correctly.
If, on time, it was not possible to instill independence in children, life will become much more complicated. To eat the child wants infrequently, because he understands that after a whim parents will still feed him. It is not always necessary to punish, but you can only suggest that you can get delicious, for example, natural juice, with your own hands. To do this, it is enough to prepare not only the everyday dish that the child will eat, but also something interesting. Of course, he will want to receive it, and at that moment it is necessary to put the "question by edge". It is not difficult to do this, since the child is already fed, and refusing a dish does not hurt him. So, when a child wants to get "sweet", he decides to eat himself. Over time, it will become a habit and affect all food.
Perhaps this is a complicated device, but it is dictated only by a serious mistake in education. Always look ahead, so as not to allow oversights, which can affect the behavior of children. It is not easy to do this, because love always tries to go outside and embrace the child. Overstep yourself, otherwise the consequences will become unpleasant.