You, like any normal mother, can not remain calm, listening to the weeping of her crumbs. I want to immediately come running to him to help, do everything to make his tears stop pouring! Excess of the first tears of the newborn can easily wear out and Mom, and the baby. Often enough to take the child's hand so that he stops crying, but it happens that no tricks can not calm down the tearful karapuza. Sometimes, you give him a breast or a bottle, and the kid turns away from her, spits out a pacifier, throws out the toy. How to make a crumb smile? Remember: the baby never cries without reason. And if you determine it, it will be much easier for you to comfort your treasure. Therefore, we will try to help you find out the cause of the children's tears, because the crumb is hoping for you!
ANIMAL PATIENT!
A sharp, hysterical, loud crying, as a rule, may occur closer to the night. The child begins to press his legs, he wriggles all over, arches his back. With this behavior, be careful - this is evidence of colic. Do not leave the baby alone with this disaster! As an aid to the crumb, you can put an element of dry heat on his stomach, for example, ironed with a hot iron diaper (warm, but not burned!). Also, massage of a small tummy can become effective. Carry out circular movements, directed to the navel clockwise (try not to touch the liver area). You can ask the pediatrician to prescribe droplets of colic. If the baby is breastfed and you are against such treatment, you can drink such drops yourself. The medicine will be absorbed by the baby along with the milk. But in any case, do not prescribe the drug yourself!
I WANT TO EAT!
The kid begins to whine without tears, put his fist into his mouth, eagerly suck him, and then begins a loud crying. He is often sharp, quickly turns into screaming. In such cases, you understand that the baby is asking for food! This is the most frequent reason for the first tears of a newborn baby. Children in the first months of life are still unable to accumulate energy reserves, which is why they need to eat often. You do not need to stick to the feeding schedule: in the first months, feed your baby on demand, because a hungry child can cry for hours! Over time, he will develop the optimal diet for him.
I FEEL HOT!
If the baby cries and still breathes faster, and his skin is red and sweaty, it means he has overheated. Important: the optimal air temperature in the room where the baby is, should be 21-22 C. If your baby is sweating, change it into dry clothes (into light things from natural fabrics).
I WANT TO YOU FOR HANDS!
The baby begins to whimper softly, cry, draws your attention. And when he does not succeed, he begins to pass to loud moaning and crying. You can easily prevent the flow of tears, especially since it is not necessary to immediately grab the baby in your arms. You can just talk to him, pat on the back, on the head. By the way, many children are calmed by the mummy's finding itself in their field of vision.
MY MEASURES
The crutch begins to spin, all the time trying to change the position of the body, all this is accompanied by a long and persistent cry. It's all clear, because the discomfort from a dirty diaper is unpleasant to everyone, besides it can become the reason for developing diaper dermatitis and diaper rash. Moreover, using disposable diapers can not get rid of unpleasant sensations. If a crumb has pokaked, try to immediately change the diaper and clean the ass clean.
I CAN NOT LIE
At first glance, the tears of the newborn have no reason? He just cries with a tear in the crib? Look, suddenly his back stiffened from a long stay in one position or the shirt was crumpled and uncomfortable wrinkles formed. During the first three months the baby is unable to turn over himself. So all that is left for him is to hope for help from my mother. Therefore, do not ignore the first tears of the baby, it is better to spread it on your tummy more often.
JUST LASKS WANTED
The baby is necessary, like air, mother's care, attention and love. And this, too, is often the cause of loud and at the same time lamentable calls and crying. Always take the baby in his arms, if he asks about this: in your arms the baby feels protected. By the way, children, who are regularly worn on their hands, cry much less and grow confident people.
I'M TIRED
When during the day the baby was accompanied by many events (my grandmother was visiting, my mother was taking guests with me) and associated emotions, he can not calm himself and calmly fall asleep. The child does not understand what is happening to him, and he starts to cry. Do not constantly overload the child with too many irritants, because the baby's nervous system is still immature: it is difficult for him to cope with emotions.
I FEEL BAD!
Child crying, signaling about the disease, is very weak, often nasal. The child looks you in the eyes, and during feeding is often interrupted (if the throat hurts or a spout is laid) and again cries. In this situation, you should immediately consult a doctor for help. All the more you need to be alerted if the baby cries for a very long time and does not succeed in calming him with methods that worked without fail before.
THE TEETH IS RIDING
Closer to seven-eight months, the baby begins to erupt the first teeth. Quite often this process is accompanied by tears. Be sensitive to the "dental" problems of the baby. To relieve the pain and calm the baby, give it a chilled toy-teetotal (sold in a pharmacy) or apply to the gums an anesthetic gel, which the pediatrician recommended.
I WANT TO HAVE IT!
This concerns already grown-up children - after six months, who can already occupy themselves and understand something. You can not now pay attention to the child, leave it in the crib, give your favorite toys, and he immediately begins to fall into hysterics and shout, demanding the desired attention. Is the situation familiar? The main thing is to remain calm and not to succumb to the provocation of a small extortionist. Especially since the karapuz is now unable to listen to your moralizing - this will only intensify his indignation. Wait for the storm. And when the child calms down a bit, embrace him and gently say that everything is in order. Try to switch attention to the crumbs, for example, offer to play with the ropes. If this happened for the first time, try not to provoke such emotional explosions in the future - do not leave your child alone for long.
I'M BORED!
Often the child is crying with boredom. Do not leave the baby alone for long in the crib, even if there are a lot of toys around it. For crumbs to communicate and play with my mother is much more interesting and useful. If you need to rest, put the baby (do this, starting from the age of three months) on a special developing mat. Attached to him bright toys will not let the kid get bored! And various sewn-in elements perfectly develop fine motor skills.
THIS IS NOT BETTER TO DO!
1. Even if you do not feel well, you should not throw out your negative emotions for a crumb.
2. Do not shout at the baby, because for him it is a great stress. Your cry will only scare him.
3. Do not shake it. This is very dangerous for the child's psyche and even for his life. Control yourself!
4. Do not leave the baby alone at home. A crumb must always be under the care of adults.
5. Do not try to give the baby sedatives! His nervous system is not yet formed, and you can hurt the child!
RESPONSE TO THE TREES OF THE CHILD
The first tears of a newborn child always have an explanation. Infants do not know how to manipulate other people. A crying crumb needs comfort, because thanks to your presence the kid understands the main thing.
• Feels safe. The kid is convinced that he can always count on your help and will never be left alone with his misfortune.
• Gains self-confidence. If you react to his crying, then he is very important to you man.
• Builds his relationships with the world around him. If they are considered with his needs, then the world is benevolent towards him.
• Understands that they love him. Baby called, and you came to him, for his sake, leaving all his business.