While men write self-critical articles such as "Forty mistakes of men in bed", women need to look at themselves from outside and understand that the man is not a robot and not a breeding bull. It should not be perfect and guess from half a stone all your secret desires. Especially if you have never bothered to think about what annoys him, and what he needs.
Pose with a "log"
Close your eyes and lie still - this is the worst thing you can do. A man needs to know that a loved one agreed with him for sex, not because of despair, but because she wanted it deadly. Any your tender and passionate gestures are welcome. And also sincere sobs, hot breath and groans of bliss. But what you do not need to do is shout like in the ancient Roman Coliseum. Theatricality, although it is good, but not in bed.
Boldness
Sincere conversations are best to lead up to, or after sex, but not during sex. Such conversations a man perceives as an insult, he is sure that if a woman has a desire to communicate, then she is not going to have fun with him. Understand for yourself one simple rule, the biggest thing that you are allowed to say during sex is the name of your loved one, and in a gentle voice. Appeal "sweet," "beloved" and delighted short phrases. The level of vulgarity and content will depend on the level of your own depravity. If you want to discuss your new blouse during the process, the best way is to hold the pillow in your mouth and, without clenching your teeth, speak. This is your meaningful monologue will be perceived by a man as a groan of pleasure.
Narcissism
Fear of spoiling make-up or hairstyle during sex is the surest sign that your partner does not give a damn about the fact that apart from her there is someone else in the bed. Just in case, remember that the beauty of a woman after sex is disheveled hair and shine in her eyes, and not properly selected lipstick and impeccable make-up. It's like this Margarita after the ball. Look at yourself at least once from the side and then you will realize that in the whole world you can not find a more beautiful lady, even if the make-up is eaten by a partner, and the lipstick is smeared on the face.
Ignorance of the partner's body
Strange as it sounds, but the man on the body has more than one erogenous zone. And if you ignore such a fact, and at the first opportunity pull to the intimate male organ, then in time it will irritate the man. The affection of a penis is better attributed to the completion of a prelude. And if you do not know what to take up to this time, experiment, begin to caress the inner surface of the hips, the stomach (especially the lower abdomen), the nipples, in men they are very sensitive, the neck of your beloved. And by the reaction that will follow, you will understand that the man likes most. Just do not need to go each time on the same paved "route". Monotony kills love, and sex is a creative activity.
Manipulation
"Darling, let's buy me that suede cloak, and I'll arrange for you an unforgettable night of love for this!". If you ever said something to your man, and he did not leave you in the middle of this shopping center, then it means that you just got a holy man. Take care of it. In principle, men do not tolerate being manipulated, and manipulating sex is a big mistake. You need to forget about it.
Shyness
During sex, you behave like a 12-year-old virgin, who is at a gynecologist's reception, all squeezed and tries to cover her most intimate with her hands. It is able to kill once and for all the attraction of a man to you. Men like liberated women who are ready to have fun and love their body. When on the woman's face he sees shame, fear and a willingness to escape, taking with him all things, then with such a woman the man will not be able to relax and finish the business started.
Grandma's underwear
Irretrievably gone are the days when the size of the pants was not inferior to the size of the pillowcase. The best women's underwear is the one that a man can quickly remove from you. This does not apply to darned panties and worn bras.
Refusal of oral sex
We women spoiled our men, and this is a bitter reality. Today, most men without oral sex cares consider sex inferior. Refusal of oral sex a man perceives very painfully, he does not understand how his beloved woman can squeamish the most pure and expensive that he has. And you can hardly explain to him by any other reasons. This does not mean that from now on you should enjoy such a pleasure before and after and in between. If a man will often see below the level of his belt, then most likely nothing good will come of it. But do not put taboos on oral sex. Better let it be a pleasant "dessert" or the culmination of a prelude to your beloved.
Bezynitsiativnost
Of course, it's good when your body can take any pose that they want to give to it. But there are limits. Sometimes let's understand the partner that you are not a plasticine crow for him, but a passionate woman who loves sex and takes initiative in it.
The story of the former
When you tell your beloved about your many connections, hoping to arouse him, you will be disappointed when he gets up and leaves, and it will be painful and bitter. In a woman there must be a riddle, and making a list of love adventures is the prerogative of men. Moreover, it is not necessary to show off to them in front of representatives of the opposite sex. You, therefore, will earn yourself the image of a girl from the Yaroslavl highway, than just increase your credibility.
Now we know what are the main mistakes of women. Read the above errors, then try not to do them in bed.