The law of attraction to yourself
Perfected externally, we seek the recognition of others. And getting it, we increase self-esteem and confidence. Each of us chooses his own style and builds an image: soft feminine, impeccably elegant, childish-direct, invitingly sexy ... As a rule, this choice is not accidental: we focus on the taste of the one whom we want to enchant, surprise, conquer forever or at least for the evening. And if the "goal is hit," our self-esteem soars up: we begin to respect ourselves for being able to manipulate our appearance and achieve our goal. But the law also operates within the framework of relations with women of the same sex. The deliberate inattention to one's appearance, lack of well-being, especially neglect, causes compassion, and even disrespect for the surrounding ladies, which inevitably reduces our self-esteem. Beautiful clothes and make-up allow us not to oppress our people around us. This is a kind of respect - to yourself and other people.
The law of self-respect
Well-groomed appearance helps to hide our weakness (illness, bad mood) and not lose self-control in any situation. It's like a theatrical mask, under which the problems of a real person are not visible, carefully thought out appearance allows us to draw a certain boundary between ourselves and others. It's emotional to distance yourself from them. Maybe you are not in the best shape today, but perfect makeup, expensive underwear and a gorgeous sitting dress do not leave a chance for others to notice it. You feel feminine and strong at the same time, respect yourself for being able to disguise your problems in such a way that no one will suspect about them and will not try to take advantage of your weakness. Moreover, well-groomed appearance signals that you treat yourself with a piety and do not allow anyone who has got to drastically reduce the distance in communicating with you without your desire.
The law of positive reflection
By doing yourself better, we ... decorate the world! And our self-respect grows after a change in self-perception and perception of the world around us. Trying to correct for the better something in our own appearance, we add a positive to our perception of reality. When we blossom, the world also becomes lighter and colorful: you start to meet good people, notice pleasant little things, get new chances. And against this background, an additional resource of self-esteem opens. Even in spite of major troubles and intractable problems, the desire to live revives. At least in order to demonstrate to the "public" its new beautiful appearance, and as a maximum - to use it. That is why in crisis moments of life it is so important to find the strength not to launch oneself and, on the contrary, even to change for the better. And if the forces are, we feel the effect of this in the form of self-esteem and the desire to make a new leap to success. And even a small "bonus", such as an admiring glance following or a compliment from a friend, becomes an incentive for the next successful step.
The law of dependence
The more intensive, regular and "more costly" care for appearance, the higher the level of self-esteem. "Cost" means not so much money injections into the exterior, as time and effort devoted to caring for themselves. If we pamper each day with a good cream, from time to time we give the body a massage course, maintain the body tone in the fitness center, at least once a year we go to the resort, we automatically grow in our own eyes. The well-known psychological law "The more invested, the more valued" acts in this case for one hundred percent.