Unmarried girls usually dream that the day will come when the prince on a white horse (or at the worst, a businessman on a black Mercedes) will appear behind them, offer his hand and heart and take him to his kingdom where there are no worries and problems. But how to meet this most wonderful and attractive man in the world, if we do not know how to get acquainted?
And here immediately remembered an anecdote in which Moyshakazhdy evening asks God about winning the lottery, which he eventually answers that it would be nice to start buying a lottery ticket. The conclusion from this anecdote, in which only a joke, should be as follows: if you want to catch a large fish, prepare the necessary gear beforehand.
Nice to meet you
Modern girls, though with obvious pleasure, wear pants and men's jackets, are embarrassed by the full program to take advantage of the benefits that equality gives them. So, in order to successfully meet the men, make a lot of friends, you need not be afraid and approach them first. Remember, now is not the time when you will be condemned for active actions.
Where to get acquainted
It is likely that you will meet your love in the metro or on the market, choosing meat for shish kebabs, you still need to remember that you should look for the second half in the places that are most familiar to you. Do you study science, spend your days in specialized libraries, often attend seminars and conferences? Well, there is nothing easier than getting ready to get to know a man you like and fate can turn so that you find yourself colleagues or just in love with one thing people. Every weekend spend in nightclubs? Here, too, there are quite adequate people with whom you can meet.
So, the most popular places to meet are public institutions, that is, museums, libraries, concert venues, exhibition centers, beaches. This is due to the fact that you are in a kind of anonymous territory, where you can communicate in an informal setting.
Plan and again plan
Once you have decided where your potential second halves reside, it is advisable to think about how you will get on the conversation and what you will communicate in the first few minutes.
If the plan for independent dating is not at all cushy, try to find common with the person you like - maybe, they will become your wand-zashchalochkoy. However, in such cases, it is better to count on yourself, otherwise it may turn out that a nice stranger will be led by your best friend. Naturally, in this case, you will remain with nothing. But even if you used the help of outsiders for acquaintance, follow that to build further communication yourself.
What do you have in common?
In order to interest a new acquaintance, it is necessary to find a common theme for conversation. If you met at the exhibition, you can discuss the works presented in the exposition, on the beach or in a sanatorium it is nice to negotiate the rest of the rest. If you can not come up with a specific topic, any one will do.
An excellent way to start an acquaintance while doing this is to mask your intentions. So, a girl can accidentally drop her purse, stumble, scatter papers, and the prince will gladly offer her help. Remember, men like to feel like heroes and can be successfully played on this.
Complicated? Nothing of the kind: there is a sufficient mood and confidence that everything will turn out. And more: remember that, the more acquaintances you get, the easier it is to communicate with new people.