They say that opposites attract. Very often men choose their full opposite in marriage. The revelers marry home girls from the right, intelligent families, and serious and modest boys choose their party queens and secular lionesses for their wives.
But first of all men marry those women who are a reliable support for a man with whom one can build a truly trusting and respectful relationship, a real family.
But how, then, can we relate to statistics, according to which only 10 out of 100 marriages are concluded for love. Choosing his wife and mother of his future children, a man makes for himself a number of criteria that his future wife must match. Often the one that they love does not know how to create a cosiness, does not want children, does not know how to farm, and so on and so forth. That is, a beloved woman does not correspond to the image of an ideal wife and mother. Here in such situations, some men marry women who match their ideal. As they say, endure - will fall in love.
Many romantically minded men seek their ideal for a long time. But there are no ideals in this world. And I have to marry such men from hopelessness to those who remotely resemble and correspond to that very ideal.
In our time, very often not only women marry by calculation, but also men marry for the same reason. The calculation can be financial, and career, and the calculation of popularity and fame in society. This list is unlimited. In such situations, a man marries in order to obtain a certain advantage in the form of this calculation. And not necessarily the woman you marry, love, the main thing is to get her to believe it or show her the benefits and benefits that she gets from this marriage. No wonder there is a saying: "First time they marry for love, second for convenience, third for habit".
Many men marry the first lonely woman on the street because the time has come and all friends and parents unanimously insist that they should marry. All friends around have got families, and you are one still a bachelor who is looking for a ghostly ideal. Here, and begins to weigh the bachelor way of life and the pressure of others.
There are many reasons why men marry women of one kind or another. This is the pregnancy of a woman from this man, and his fear of loneliness in old age, and the pressure of parents, and the unsettledness of life and the desire to change something in life, to try something new, family life in this situation. All this can form an ideal family for the community, the visibility of the family, but in such a family there will never be love. The maximum that is possible in such a marriage is respect and care and only with the mutual desire of the spouses for this.
But on whatever women women marry, we hope that they marry you for a great love. Do not deny yourself love, be open to her. And then it is you who will prove to be the woman you married on mutual love. Do not try to use the above methods to marry a man you like. Nothing good will come of it. Wait for your love and that very single man. Everything has its time, as they say.