How to understand that you like a man

Men often complain about a lack of understanding of female logic, or rather, its complete absence. Perhaps this is because they themselves do not know what logic is, and how it manifests itself in words and deeds? Even in childhood, they formed a distorted view of the logical patterns. For example, instead of showing your girlfriend's interest through sweets, help, or honest confession, they start hooliganning, pulling pigtails and demonstrating their worst qualities. Growing up, men change little, continuing to hide their sympathy for a woman for tedious and not always appropriate jokes, ostentatious indifference or even complete disregard. How to recognize in such illogical behavior the interest of a man and understand that he really likes you?

Mimicry

"He's written everything on his face!" - the girlfriends say, noticing the increased attention of a man you do not notice. Look closely, perhaps in your presence, his lips widen in a smile, he involuntarily spends them with the tip of his tongue or even bites them. And maybe, on the contrary, he suddenly becomes thoughtful and serious. Then look into his eyes. In them, for sure, you will find the truth, which he can hide even from himself. The interested man looks slightly clouded and lingers on the object of his sympathy for longer than the standards allowed by etiquette. It's just that he, like that fairy tale, can not "take your eyes off" from you.

Voice and Speech

Under the influence of hormones, the voice of a lover in peace is filled with soft sounds and languorous intonation. Therefore, if you are sympathetic to a man, and he wants to please you, there will appear in his voice "cooing" notes or a pleasant hoarse voice. But if the timbre of the voice always becomes more attractive, then the speech can be all the way around. From excitement and an overabundance of feelings, a man begins to swallow letters, speak vaguely or carry a complete nonsense. He understands this, is embarrassed, but can not remain silent, continuing to give out a stream of delirium, which makes it ridiculous and looks stupid.

Language of the body

The most truthful and honest is the body. It is difficult to control, being "under the degree" of emotions. Therefore, the gestures that a man uses during a conversation, eloquently tell about his true attitude towards you. You definitely like a man, if he:

• He does not know where to put his hands. He unconsciously wants to touch you, hug you, but while he can not do this, you have to take them by some action. Therefore, if a man communicates with you holding his hands in his pockets, thrusts his thumbs on the strap or closes all his fingers "into the lock," be sure he is not indifferent to you.
• Corrects the tie and clothes, looks like invisible motes. So he subconsciously realizes the desire to be beautiful for his woman. If you also catch yourself on an unconscious touch with your hair or a smooth skirt, know that sympathy is mutual.
• Copies the gestures and postures of the interlocutor's body. A man who likes you can, without hesitation, mirror the position of your hands, movements and head inclinations or body posture. So he tries to be on the same "wave" and put you to himself.

Tactile communication

The indifferent man begins to interact through a sense of touch. It is extremely important for him to express physical closeness to you. In other words, it seeks specifically or accidentally to touch your hand, hair or face. So he tries to establish a physical contact, express his sympathy or attract attention. Touching is a very intimate thing, and by the sensations that causes tactile communication with him, you will be able to understand whether your feelings are mutual.

Appearance

Even the most indifferent to their appearance men during grooming for a woman they like begin to smarten up. Nature took care of this. In the animal world, it is often possible to meet males, whom she has bestowed with brighter plumage or coloring than females. Apparently, the same law operates in the wild as in the human environment - women like eyes more, therefore, instincts alone are not enough for them. That's why a man has to beat the thresholds of fashion shops, hairdressing salons and gyms, so that you pay attention to him, as the best of the best males.

Jealousy

As a rule, a man is sure that sympathy on his part already gives him the right to consider his woman. And even if she does not even suspect that he is in love, he will be jealous of ensuring that no one else will attack her. If a man reacts unreservedly to other men that appear near you, "plays" cheekbones during your communication with a colleague, frowns and presses his lips, when you happily respond to a friend's greeting, most likely he is jealous. Inside of him there is a real war in which he quickly and brutally gets rid of all rivals.

Generosity

This is not just about gifts and material signs of attention. Of course, it's hard not to notice the attention from a man who falls asleep with flowers, knows how much diamonds you like and what color a car to give in honor of celebrating the week of your acquaintance. But more important is the generosity of the soul, which manifests itself in deep morality, generosity, kindness, the ability to empathize and sacrifice oneself for the sake of the interests of a loved one. If a man shows his location in this way, you are incredibly lucky. You found a real treasure!

Actions

A man who is truly in love is not given beautiful words, not touches and kisses, not languid looks, and not even jealousy. A man who loves with all his heart and wants sincere reciprocity, uses the most important man's trump card - actions. He will listen carefully, watch and remember: when you have a birthday, what is important to you and what you dream about. He will not pursue you like a shadow, but he will always be there in a difficult moment, and he does not need to ask for help - he will act on the lead. Such a man will do everything to become your air - without which do not live, salt - without which it is not tasty and with love - without which there is no point.