For sure, each of us faced with such situations, when a man openly declares, they say, he is tired of everything and that he feels how that invisible love connection disappears between you. Some women arrogantly snort and offended: well, how could they have been fond of a beloved man? Resentment takes its toll - and they tear attitudes, despite the fact that in the soul they most want to preserve them. But there are women of a different type - they are interested in the question: "What to do, so that the guy does not lose interest", not when it's too late to change something, but in advance, when relations are just starting to gain momentum. But this does not mean that when everything gave a crack, you can not save your pair.
Let's say your guy has noticeably cooled to you and lost interest. It's very sad, I agree, but you need to sit down and figure it out - why did this happen and in whom is the reason behind it? We warn you in advance that the end of all your efforts may not succeed - for your man is also a Man, with his feelings and emotions and, probably, he really decided everything and will not agree to reconciliation. Be prepared for this turn of events.
Now look into yourself: is this man the man who you need? Or maybe you just do not see the options at this moment and it's for you - like the last chance for a drowning man? Think carefully before you head to the battle for your future together.
By the way, quite often, instead of sitting down and calmly discussing the current conflict situation with the "protesting party", we keep all this negative and build speculation about what is wrong in us. There are two lines of our behavior with you. Or we become obsequious and agree to everything, we try to please the "master" so that he will change his anger to mercy. Or, on the contrary, we take a protective stance and incinerate the discontented not only with glances, but also with actions. Note that the constructive grain is not found either in the first or in the second variant. But to organize a sincere conversation on positive tones is, perhaps, the best way out. At the same time, and discuss - to whom and what bothered, whether you need to change and which way.
When no one is with you, sit alone in splendid isolation, brew the tea more firmly and think about your behavior. This is not humor - really, decompose your character, your manners "on the shelves," try to understand - maybe you are so ate at home, what is really boring with you? Maybe you and the guy just have different interests? Perhaps he wants you to share his passions or, at least, do not prevent him from doing what he likes? Take a leaf and write on it about all your shortcomings. It can not be that you do not have them? Then unobtrusively ask the guy - what disadvantages does he see in you? And check the lists. Firstly, thanks to this, you will understand what really lacks you have, and, secondly, you will be able to better understand yourself and the causes of your conflicts.
That, in principle, and all our advice. Follow them and understand the situation - this is the first step to a successful solution. If you understand that the situation is still in you - try to change and experiment, appear before your favorite eyes every time a new and mysterious - let your guy never tire of guessing your puzzle! Learn to dance or cook, perspire his masculine pride - after all, they should be proud of their girls - and only then they really lie down for your relationship.
But if you saw that trying here is useless and the man trivial looking for a reason to leave - then do not hold it. He has already decided everything and thought it over; by his perseverance you will only do worse - perhaps he will even become angry with you and your incomprehension and leave, taking away in your soul resentment and anger - which, you will agree, is an unpleasant end to any relationship - even those that have long cooled.
