Dress. Actually, this is the main incentive, prompting us to go to the registry office. But it must be chosen! And there are so many of them. And all are so beautiful. And all are so expensive. What to do? To begin with, you need to calm down and ... exhale. And then think: what kind of wedding dress do you want? Imagine it down to the smallest detail. The next step is to remember your real weight and dimensions. Only real, not declared. By the way, it's in your own interests. Next, you need to clearly define your financial ceiling, and everything that does not exceed it ... Oh, what a delight ... But we agreed not to look! And now you can start looking. Saves a lot of time and, more importantly, spiritual strength.
The secret of a beautiful and successful wedding is also hidden in the organization of the celebration. Now what is not offered - and numbers for cars (Masha + Vanya), and videos, and fireworks, and white pigeons in the clouds. The cost of a wedding tends to infinity. But if suddenly (well, suddenly?) Financial questions for you are of little importance, then the mental and physical expenses for the organization are exhausted so much that the only thought in anticipation of the wedding is: "Lord, well, let it soon end!" To avoid this it is necessary to choice: do without pigeons (after all, this is violence over the birds); to dump all organizational questions on someone's brave shoulders (let's say that the future husband will show that he is worthy).
Guests. At the wedding, for some reason, they invite not those you want. And those who are offended, if not invited. The latter is recruited by two hundred people. You do not even remember them in your face, but your mother says: "Well, it's impossible, it's uncomfortable." It is necessary to show rigidity.
This is your holiday. And if anyone wants to have fun at the wedding - so let him go and get married. On this occasion, there are several secrets of a beautiful and successful wedding, for example, the most acceptable options: to sit only with parents for a couple of hours, and then fly away to the reckless party with the best friends; if finance allows, then let them come all. God be with them. In the crowd aunts and uncles, one way or another, get lost, and you will look into the happy eyes of your chosen one, and he will look into yours. And they let them walk. Mom, again, nice. Of course, it is impossible to foresee everything at the wedding. Certainly something will happen - the limousine will break, and you will almost be late for the registrar, the stockings will tear, the witness will pour red wine on a white dress, the heel will break, and the father-in-law with the father-in-law will be adherents of different political camps. And then your wedding will save only one thing - the fact that you love each other. This, in fact, is the main success of your wedding and your life. Well, the fact that the toastmaster in a cast or someone did not like something - so this is the right word, such trifles.
Male attitude to the wedding. Men rarely marry in calculation. As a rule, this is either a marriage of love or coercion. It so happened that men marry either very early (before the age of 22), or rather late (after 30). And since the offer to marry is almost always done by men, for him it means first of all declaring responsibility for the future family. Men enter into spontaneous (impulsive) marriages not less often than women. Very often, especially at a young age, they confuse love with love.