Often such a betrayal is an attempt to get rid of, escape from a relationship that does not suit a woman, for example, when the family understates her self-esteem when her husband constantly accuses her of something. A woman lives by emotions, and if a man can not or does not want to support a female emotional component, moreover, if he is often rude to her, it can cause her to go into the arms of another. No wonder they say that if a wife leaves "left", she often seeks in another man emotional support, and not sex as it may seem. Although, of course, that for such support, she is forced to give her body to this other man. We can not disagree that the man in turn agrees to provide such support, only enjoying all the delights of her body, sleeping with her.
After 30 years, many women experience age-related stress. Treason to her husband here will serve as an occasion for them to see their own beauty, the former desire and attractiveness.
A man can communicate with his wife as a little girl, daughter or younger sister, underestimate her femininity. The girl wants Him to see in her not a doll or a toy, but a real woman to understand the woman's destiny in the family.
The husband is no longer able to satisfy his wife sexually, and she, being depressed, is ready to commit treason in order to satisfy an intimate need for a moment.
The spouses have sex with each other, but the girl does not get sexual pleasure. This is possible if the husband, for example, became inattentive in sex. A woman is a fragile nature, gentle and often modest (not in all cases of course) and may simply not show her discontent directly, but commit treason.
In the family between the husband and wife there was a strong quarrel, there was a crisis of marital relations. In this case, the girl has a feeling of rejection by her husband: "Threw, bastard!", She has a feeling of revenge, and betrayal on her part is inevitable.
Often, change can be explained by the fact that a woman needs a sharp emotional surge, dope. It was emphasized above that girls in their majority can not live without emotions, they need impressions, acute sensations. The saying that only men attracts new is a myth. New sensations - the need for the psyche of any person. And if a woman does not satisfy this need through various activities, entertainment, recreation with her husband, she begins to seek a source of satisfaction on the side. Boredom of ordinary family life, too, will lead to treason.
If a woman is not married for the first time, the cause of betrayal committed by the wife may be a past affection and intimate attraction to the ex-husband. She in this case changes from habit.
In her relationship with her husband, the girl does not see any prospects. As a rule, a woman takes into account several factors. The spouse does not have the ability to provide material support to the family, pays little attention to it, has lost the ability to satisfy her intimate needs, has lost marital fidelity, finally. She understands that it is necessary to part and treason here will only accelerate this break in relations.
The husband is negligent to his appearance, inaccurate, inattentive to the woman. And this new guy at work is a rare sympathetic, always clean, neat, shaven and dressed with a needle. He does everything for the sake of the girl's temptation: she says sweet compliments, she gives even simple but exquisite gifts and admires the girl in every possible way as a real woman who knows her own worth. A woman has a strong desire to experience the fullness of sexual pleasure with such a man. She can change this slovenly spouse with this work colleague.
Spouse devotes much time to his work, leaving nothing to his wife and family. A woman is looking for romance and sexual gratification with her lover, who has such a long time for her.
Often, a girl wants to assert herself by paying attention and compliments to her from other men if she does not feel attractive and loved in her relationship with her husband.
The situation is the reverse of the previous one: the husband pays much attention to his wife and tries with all his might to satisfy her weaknesses and moods. And if a girl does not know how to appreciate who she has, she can change following the principle: "it's good there where we are not."
Change of the wife can serve as flirting from the side of the husband with another girl, the offended spouse will change him without any remorse.
Male domination, the struggle for power - another reason for betrayal by his wife. If the husband tries to prove his superiority over the wife all the time, this deprives them of a joint relationship of all sorts of feelings and romance, which again leads to treason.
There is a category of women whose approach to men and the way of life as a whole is: "One is good, but two is better" or "But I want to live with a rich husband." Like the warmth of the current family hearth and it suits her, but very much bewitched with the words and phrases "VIP", to shop only in expensive boutiques, clothes and shoes from famous couturiers - Valentino, Gucci, Dolce & Cabana. And that second in every way tempts your wife with such a luxury and brilliance. Such a woman will necessarily lead an affair with such a wealthy boyfriend, and perhaps give her husband a divorce.
Female adultery is not only characteristic of psychological causes, but also causes of a purely biological nature. A woman initially has more potential opportunities for committing treason than a man. We state Z. Freud "anatomy is destiny". Men for sexual intercourse need an erection at least, it may not be. In women, unlike men, sexual intercourse can always be (although sometimes without much pleasure). All she needs is to lie down (well, or take some pose) and, according to sexologists, "take passive participation in sexual intercourse." You ask: "For what?". Scientists respond: "It's all semen".
By the way, relatively recent studies have shown an amazing thing: a woman is much more likely to become pregnant as a result of non-conjunctive communication than from her own husband - a constant partner, and there is enough one sexual rapprochement. Moreover, about 50% of cases of female adultery occur during the ovulation period, which lasts 5-6 days per month. It is during this period and there is a maximum number of cases of female infidelity. What is more interesting these days a woman can live, well, and sleep, of course, with her husband. And as statistics show, every fifteenth newborn is not only "alien", but also conceived at a time when the womb of a woman is the sperm of two men at once. So it turns out that wives, changing their husbands, "arrange" in their genitals a kind of "war of sperm". Just as the deer are fighting for the female, the sperm is fighting to find their continuation. And, as a rule, sperm livers win here.
The reason for this are the biological instincts of men, which work absolutely unconsciously. A man is able to adapt the composition of his sperm to the upcoming sexual situation without even realizing it. And the lover in this case releases into a partner 3-4 times more sperm for one sexual act than her regular partner - the husband for 6-8 sex. And since the lover's sperm is greater, it is more active, respectively, and the chances of fertilization in women are greater with a lover than with a husband.
A question may arise, but for what kind of biological reasons does a woman commit treason on her part. She does this again at the subconscious level, natural selection, conducted by nature, works here. Suppose a wife on Wednesday had sex with her husband, and the next day she betrayed him with her lover. Despite the fact that she copulated with her husband, say, 8-10 times a month, and slept with her lover only once, having the chance to become a father more. Why? It is important for nature that children appear from more perfect in biological terms individuals. This gives homo sapiens the opportunity to survive as a species. And even if a woman has a regular sex life with her husband, he is an exemplary family man, a successful businessman, the soul of the company and generally good, but he has low sexual activity, he does not care about nature. It does not touch matters of morality. The spouse, following natural instincts, begins to search for entertainment with another person - a lover. Of course, the betrayal of the wife for such a loving husband will be like a thunder out of the blue. But the husband in this case is useless to seek the answer to the question "How could she, because I never, with anyone ..." Animal instinct provides a natural selection, and the nobility does not know about decency and morality.
Summarizing the above, we note that many books are devoted to the way a woman behaves in the role of Mother Teresa. She must sacrifice herself and be able to forgive, in order to keep her husband, even in case of his betrayal. It turns out that men's betrayal is as a matter of course and the woman is ready for anything to keep the relationship? Of course, in our reality, everything is far from what is written in the literature. At some point the girl becomes unbearably painful, sad and she understands that loyalty here is not to save the family, the return from her husband will no longer be. Woman, running away from despair of pain and anguish changes.
How many reasons! It seems that if in the life of two marriage-bound people there is any of the situations listed above, the wife will necessarily commit treason. Do not take all these causes in a literal sense. Relationships with treason are especially individual in each, how individual is individual. Of course, as folk wisdom says: forcibly you will not be nice. And yet, before you decide on adultery, you should talk with your spouse and find together what is wrong with each other ... and try to eliminate the cause. After all, one of the components of a long happy marriage - the ability to carefully treat the problems of someone close to you, understand his needs and desires. Well, in extreme cases, honestly arrange all the points above i.