So how to treat the betrayal of her husband? In this situation, there are several possible options - to arrange turbulent scandals, or diligently to think out a strategy of behavior.
Constantly arranged hysterics will not solve the problem, but on the contrary, the intolerable situation in the family will push the husband to the razluchnitse. In this case, you will suffer not only you, but also children, and even a husband, for whom, it is likely, it was not treason, but just a fleeting affair.
If you want to save your family, stop other infidelities of your husband and save a normal psychological climate in your family, you need to think carefully about your behavior. In this case, it is necessary to take into account a few tips.
Firstly, we must remember that the nature of a man pushes him to seek novelty, a desire to try something different, and also to prove his "masculine" abilities. In some cases, treason is the husband's attempt to show that he is, to a certain extent, a free man and has the right to his own decisions and actions (a similar situation is possible if the husband feels that his freedoms and rights are being infringed). Thus, a man tries to assert himself.
Secondly, statistical evidence confirms the fact that 90% of husbands change wives, and, in most cases, men themselves refer to treason as one-time entertainment, which he is not going to continue at all. If the husband changes with different women, even if he does it with an enviable regularity, then this fact does not mean that he has cooled to you, that something is wrong with you. This faithful spouse sees in treachery a continuous negative, and the loving husband on returning home will simply forget about his fun on the side and will sincerely enjoy communication with his beloved wife. Most likely a man refers to treason like, any other person to seeds or chips - having tried once, always want to continue. Maybe this fact will allow you to treat the betrayal of your husband more calmly.
Thirdly, it is important to find out the cause of treason. The abuse and attitude towards the faithful as a ladies' man or a dog will not help to find the best way out. Most likely, the cause of treason was not enough harmonious relationship between husband and wife. Maybe the family does not have enough care or attention to the interests and hobbies of the spouse, or something is missing in sexual relations. It is necessary to analyze family life and find gaps and shortcomings in the family.
Fourth, in assessing your attitude to the betrayal of your husband, try to find pros and cons in this situation. For example, if the spouse's marriage is much younger than you and your husband, then there is self-interest on the part of the razluchnitsa (true love is rarely included here). If by age you and your husband's mistress are equal, then the obvious is the fact that she is no better than you and should take care of yourself and show your wife that he is losing a lot by communicating with her, and not with you.
Separately, it should be noted that there are cheating by agreement. That is, the husband and wife agreed in what circumstances and under what conditions treason is possible. So, such an agreement is possible, if people are married for a long time, they have become attached to each other and the passion has faded somewhat. But there are children, there is mutual understanding, there can be a joint business - in a word, it is beneficial for spouses to live together and they do not want to break the established order.
In some cases, spouses betray treason legitimate. It means that in exchange for some services or indulgences, the spouse has the opportunity to completely legalize mistresses. In particular, the chance to walk to the left can be the basis for marriage.
Despite all the advice, any woman, confronted with the infidelity of a beloved man, always wonders how to treat the betrayal of her husband and how to solve this problem with the least loss for herself and her family.