Why do women change? What pushes us, guardians of the hearth, affectionate and caring wives, tender and loving mothers at such a rash step?
Scientists, writers, and artists devoted more than one scientific study, work, creation to this question. Many representatives of the stronger sex puzzled over this issue. But the answer, as a rule, depends on them.
What does a woman seek out of wedlock? Immediately make a reservation that this article is not about the category of adventurers who simply need adrenaline rush for feeling the acuteness of life or whose nature does not recognize social values and values. We are talking about those women, for whom the decision to change is completely uncharacteristic.
The biggest category among women who have changed is those who did not find emotional support and understanding from their husbands. Men are by nature more avaricious in expressing emotions, and the mind understands this by the mind of a fair sex, but how hard it is to live in a state of constant scarcity of affection, attention, support, finally, interest in what is happening in a woman's life. And this despite the fact that we are talking about the person closest to her, who, despite the absence of blood ties, became practically a native - about her husband.
Disenchantment in marriage contributes to the lack of expression of love from men, and the refusal to participate in domestic affairs and the upbringing of children. This leads to the fact that marriage begins to less and less suit a woman who sees marriage only as a series of duties. Lack of emotional contact with her husband forces a woman to seek him from another partner. In fact, the main reason for female infidelity is the search for emotional support. This is evidenced by all the same scientific research in this matter. Most respondents noted that the new relationship gave them the joy of communication, the feeling of their beauty and attractiveness, the opportunity to experience unforgettable romantic moments, and also returned faith in themselves, allowed to be the object of genuine interest on the part of men. But they put sexual relations in second place.
Sexual dissatisfaction in marriage, indeed, stands in second place among the reasons that push women to adultery. And here the fault is not only for a husband who does not show proper attention and sensitivity to the needs of a woman, but also a wife who does not want to admit to a man in the present dissatisfaction and solves the problem by finding a new partner.
On the third place among the reasons of female infidelity there is a revenge. This happens after the wife finds out about the betrayal of her husband. Very often a woman makes a decision spontaneously, under the influence of an acute sense of resentment and because of the desire to repay a partner with the same coin. But it also happens that a woman decides to put up with the situation and forgive her husband. However, even after a considerable amount of time, the mental wound is not prolonged, the woman's self-esteem is lowered to a minimum and she decides to take revenge on her husband in order to regain her importance. Often, this can lead to the dissolution of marriage, because here female infidelity - the final spiritual rejection of her husband. Subconsciously the woman is already in search of a new partner, since the pain of disappointment and resentment after the act of the spouse is irresistible. Unable to establish a family life after the betrayal of her husband, to accept and forgive him, she will seek a new life partner.
The next reason in this list is a new feeling. As a rule, the decision to change a husband because of a new love is preceded by a rather long period of acute feelings of guilt. Sometimes even a sense of guilt outweighs this struggle taking place in a woman's soul, and she renounces her possible happiness with her loved one for the sake of preserving the family, the well-being of children, and also for the sake of no reprimand on the part of relatives.
If we return to science, then some pundits claim that the cause of female betrayals lies in the genes. That is, if the predecessors for the female line had such a sin, then the representatives of the next generation may show the same weakness. Especially women are subject to treason in the period of ovulation and here scientists already speak, almost about the influence of natural selection inherent in us by nature itself. A woman subconsciously searches for the best male for satisfaction. But since all this is too rude and primitive, many representatives of the fair sex protest against such conclusions and prefer to talk about feelings that provoke treason.
There are many more reasons that push a woman to such a serious deed: sexual attraction to another man; the husband's inability to have children; the constant jealousy of a partner that a woman eventually seeks to justify; Harmful habits of her husband, gradually growing into mania; lack of respect from the partner; psychological violence in the family; desire to experience new sensations. They can be considered a serious reason for treason or not, but it all depends on how important they are to a woman who decided to betray her.