Treason of a beloved man on the Internet

Let's take for the axiom that on the Internet we began to spend more and more of our time. If you do not agree, then remember, when you last wrote letters to relatives and friends on paper, for weeks waited for an answer .... or in advance for the holidays sent greeting paper cards. Can not remember? Of course, in our speedy century it's much easier to write in ICQ, and send congratulations through special programs. We are looking for work on the Internet, we communicate, we get acquainted, we buy and sell things. Thus, we jointly came to the conclusion that you are a modern woman who appreciated the advantages that the global network gives us. You are happy in marriage, or in love and loved, next to you is the man of your dreams .

You raise children, work for the common good of your social unit, follow fashion, look beautiful, cook delicious borscht and bake wonderful kulebyaki, you unleash funny scarves. Life was a success, nothing foretells a worldly storm. And suddenly, having returned home, having turned on the computer, you accidentally discovered that your chosen one gets acquainted, communicates on the Internet with beautiful strangers, i.e. There is a betrayal of a beloved man on the Internet.
You are overwhelmed by a storm of emotions: how could he, how he dared, I gave him my best years. Your reaction is understandable, it is understandable from the point of view of psychology. Your first thought was probably the idea: to call an impudent traitor urgently, shout out an almost meaningless set of phrases, where the most decent will be: how could you, you're my favorite man, I believed you, and you acted so meanly with me! So you can act if your goal is to leave this man as soon as possible.

Lovely ladies, if - you want to save your family, do not commit this mistake. In response to your fireworks of reproaches, you will most likely hear that you insulted him with distrust by going into his mailbox, that his flirting on the Internet is innocent, and in general: "this is not what you thought!" How to act? How to keep your face in this situation, do not destroy the relationship that you have built so much time and at the same time do not turn the betrayal of a beloved man on the Internet into a betrayal of the real. So: calmness and only calmness. Do not read his correspondence, you just add degrees to the volcano of your suffering. Calling your mom or your beloved friend will not solve the problem - they will stand by your side, and they will support you as they are able, on what the light of the fire is a "heinous traitor", but they are unlikely to be able to really help you. Arrange a small relaxation. What helps you the most? Going shopping, walking with a dog, watching your favorite movie, or express cleaning for the release of extra steam. All means are good, choose any.

Changing a beloved man on the Internet should be temporarily pushed into the far corner of consciousness, so that the problem "rested". We will talk about the situation coldly and a little detached, as if this happened not with us, but with a distant acquaintance or the heroine of the series. We know that a man is naturally a hunter, and the fact that he is virtually acquainted with women does not mean that he has stopped loving you, and is ready for real meetings. He just needs to tickle his nerves and amuse his pride. When meeting, do not look at him beech, do not take a mysterious or offended look. Behave as if nothing had happened. But tell him this story as if it happened to one of your friends and comment on the situation in the vein that if it happened in your family, you would be bitter and hurt. Slowly say to him: "Darling, you - you could never do this to me, you - you know how I love you, we feel so good together, you do not want to lose me!". Your beloved man will undoubtedly consider this your indirect reaction, and putting that comfort and warmth that you give him on the scales will not change you for such dubious pleasure as the adventures on the Internet.