But still there is a fine feeling, a feeling of love, which also has its own laws, sometimes similar to the laws of love, sometimes different from it. Often, the beginning of a big and pure love is love, which grows like a mighty tree from a small seed.
These two feelings are often confused, and so let's figure out what true love and infatuation are. At the same time, we will not say what is better or worse. It is not our task to compare these concepts. We just try to understand them, and in their intricacies.
So, let's try to figure out what true love is. In my opinion, first of all it is harmony, honesty and mutual understanding, we will analyze these aspects below, in more detail.
Harmony - this is one of the foundations of true love, because how not to twist, even the most discordant alliances, which are called "ice and flame," are still built on harmony. Yes, sometimes this harmony is complex and incomprehensible to others, but most importantly it is understandable to the lover, otherwise otherwise there would not be love without it. And sometimes the most beautiful couples who marvelously fit together can not be together, because there is no harmony in their beautiful relationships.
Honesty is another cornerstone in the foundation of love. Without it, love can not be built either, and do not believe someone who says that without lies there is no real relationship, just the real ones are built on the truth. This of course does not mean that it is necessary to cut the uterus's uterine truth, sometimes it is necessary to smooth the corners and behave more flexibly, but in no case do not lie. After all, lies like a virus, at first it seems that it is small and easy to control, but then clings one after another and now the ocean of love is poisoned by a huge oil blot of lies.
Mutual understanding is also an invaluable quality in love. After all, without it, you will constantly stumble on a flat spot and bump yourself a lot of cones. With your love you need to speak "one language", and otherwise it will be like a tower of Babel, the idea is good, but due to lack of mutual understanding nothing happened. At the same time, there must be some mystery in your man, and at the same time it should be interesting, so that you do not get tired of guessing her all your life, every day.
Now it's time to talk about falling in love and try to figure out what true love is. Let's start with what we say, love and falling in love, it's not the same, although the feelings are very similar. But the love it is like a light spring breeze, a light mushroom rain. Love, it's more of an element, it's power and scope. But this does not mean that from love it is necessary to dismiss and consider it a small and unnecessary feeling, through which it is easy to cross. After all, almost always, love grows out of falling in love (as already mentioned above).
From all of the above, it follows that love should have the same qualities as love, but it also has several of its own, specific. These qualities are the ease of relations, and some romanticization of the image of a loved one. Let us consider them in more detail.
The ease of the relationship, it seems to me, and so it is clear to everyone, rarely when a good relationship begins in sweat and agony. And certainly relations in which there is no hope for the best, will lead to nothing good. From this it follows that love, first of all, is inherent in the lightness of the perception of the world, it is, as it were, coloring the world in pink! Romanticism grows from the same root, because we know that everyone has its own shortcomings, but at the moment of falling in love we do not notice them. If, however, the feeling develops into love, we already notice it, but we can put up with it or correct it.
From all that has been said, it follows that feelings of true love and true love are very similar, but still not the same. After all, love is not love, and not every love grows into true love!