Your Circle
The easiest way to create a couple with a person from your circle. Equal social position, equivalent education, similar views on life help to find a common language. It's nice to communicate with an ideal companion who understands you from a half-word. It may seem that you managed to create an ideal pair in all respects. However, such an even relationship with time can be trivial boring. A striking example is the marriage of aristocrats and wealthy families who are rarely happy.
Love and respect
Lawless Heart. In a modern open world, relationships are often tied up between absolutely different people. The eternal confrontation between physicists and lyricists occurs in the family. Someone adores the ballet and reads poetry, and someone before the penny counts the family budget and in the evenings unravels crossword puzzles. How to find common topics for conversations? How to share your emotional experiences? Only through love, patience and respect for someone else's opinion. Find mutual understanding in the relationship. To grow an ideal couple, you need time. At first, the habits and passions of another person can both irritate and amaze. But you also have your own "chips", unusual for a chosen one. Do not re-educate each other, be yourself. Go to the art gallery or raid the shopping center and you can with friends. And with your knight, tackle another matter, more appropriate for a man and a woman.
Non-similarity is a plus
It is impossible to find a man who will become your full reflection. There will always be at least some disagreements. Truth can only arise in a dispute. When people think alike, they are not able to solve difficult tasks. They can miss important details that are obvious to people with different outlooks on life. It is useful to look at things and events from different points of view. But the dispute should not develop into a confrontation. Compromise is the key to creating an ideal pair.
Psychologists noted that couples who have lived together for several years are converging interests. People subconsciously adjust to each other. The rhythm of life changes, new hobbies develop, even gastronomic predilections change. For each member of the family, as time passes, a new world opens up. At first - unusual and mysterious. And after - interesting, saving from routine. Noticeably life is revitalized by new friends and girlfriends, a new circle of friends. Entering into relations with a different person, we gradually open more and more sides of his soul. Life turns into a fascinating series, stretching for many years, but still fascinating and intriguing.
One of the secrets of an ideal couple is to compare your views on the future. It is necessary to determine common priorities, goals and ways to achieve them. Find out what are your ideas about family, rest, life, home. What are the prospects in the professional field. What are your secret dreams and so on. Understanding goals and motives will help you support each other and even inspire feats. And it is even better to have common aspirations. For example, get a bunch of kids, build a house, plant a garden. You may have to give up a part of personal ambitions for the sake of a common dream.
Opinion of relatives and friends
Often the cause of conflicts is not the family relations, but the pressure of relatives and friends. Unfortunately, parents are often jealous of their children to a partner. Anecdotes about mother-in-law and mother-in-law will always be relevant. In this case, the main role is played by the iron will of the girl (or boyfriend), whose parents initiate conflicts. The girl should clearly say that this is her choice, and she will not tolerate gross interference in her personal life. Even if it's a parent or best friend. Of course, such a volitional decision rarely succeeds in correcting the situation. Parents consider unintentional children and in gray-haired age. But your partner will see that he also means a lot to you. Often related conflicts are solved by humor and goodwill.
Creating an ideal couple, do not reject parents, relatives and friends in any way. Try to find a compromise not only inside the couple, but also in the surrounding society.