The existence of love, including mutual, was discussed at all times by famous poets, prose writers, philosophers and "ordinary mortals" in the company of the closest friends. But only a few can and can talk on this issue. Those who met their mutual love and lived with her for many years. Fortunately, we are still seeing older couples walking in the park holding hands. And they give us hope that each of us will also meet the same one or the same one someday.
How to find love and understand that it is mutual?
Find love - only half the battle. It is more important to find mutual love. Which is the strong foundation of a long, happy relationship. Most often it comes unexpectedly, like the first snowdrop in early spring. You are not looking for him, but walking in the woods, you can not take your eyes off if you have come across. This approach can be called correct as soon as it is rather foolish to look for something native in every person encountered on the way. Sometimes it happens in a different way and love can be found very close, in someone from close friends, to which he has long been accustomed and did not notice that feelings exist.
To find true love, there is no need to doubt its existence. It will overtake you in its time. And while it is not, you can devote time to self-improvement, travel and many interesting things.
Mutual love
But what if you already fell in love, but doubt the reciprocity of this feeling? There are several definitions that will help you understand this. You can derive these definitions yourself. It's enough to think about what mutual love is for you.
We, for our part, have compiled a simple list, which can push you to thoughts. In our opinion, mutual love is:
- Mutual respect of partners and constant help to each other
- Care and Respect
- The desire to spend more time together
- Deep understanding of each other
This list can be continued indefinitely, but we give it to you, because the process will help to better understand your feelings and analyze the feelings of your loved one.
Test for mutual love
To get a deeper look at your relationship, we offer you a test that is designed to determine whether you have mutual love or not. You need a sheet of paper, a pencil and a few minutes of free time.
Read each question and answer "yes" or "no" to it. If your answer is yes, put one on the sheet, negative - zero. At the end, count the balls and see the result.
Questions:
- Does your loved one often give you flowers?
- Do you often get pampered with compliments and words of love?
- Do you often visit restaurants?
- Do you often thank your beloved and confess your love to him?
- Are you satisfied with sex life?
- Do you feel proud of his success at work?
- Can you easily ask your loved one about something important?
- Do you cook breakfast for your partner?
- Do you often organize romantic dates / evenings?
- Do you accept gifts from your loved one with gratitude?
Results:
If you scored from one to three points, you should seriously think about these relationships. Most likely they are going to a break. You should decide whether you need to continue them and talk about it with your partner.
If you scored between four and six points, you have much to develop. Perhaps you just started your relationship, and your love has not yet inflamed, or you have been together for so long that it has turned into a routine. Try to get a little shaken up and resume your old passion. If you scored seven or nine points, it's definitely mutual love. Keep it and enjoy this wonderful feeling. Ten points says about perfect relationships.