Of course, when you are near, you can protect it from everything. And now your little one has grown. You get out of maternity leave and you need to go to work. Yes, it is good when there are grandmothers and grandfathers who can now take care of the child, the more your child will only be happy about it. But if there is no such possibility? Then it's time to think about preschool. Such decisions you will surely take the whole family. It is necessary to carefully choose a kindergarten and for this it is best to ask the views of mothers who bring their children there and it is desirable to interview as many people as possible.
And so, we are going to the kindergarten! What should parents prepare for? To date, it is believed that the best child adapts to the new team at 1.5-2 years, but most mothers give their children at the age of three. This is understandable, my mother stayed on vacation and finally decided to go to work, and any loving mother will consider that the longer a child is with her, then he is more protected.
Before you give the child to a kindergarten you need to prepare it, and it is advisable to start it as soon as possible. Try to say every day that in the kindergarten he will be fine. In no case can the child be scared, saying that he can not cope with something, that he will not be comfortable there, since there will not be a number of moms and everything in this direction. After all, a child at this age believes everything that adults say, and believes that if the elders say so, then so it is.
Pay attention to the health of your baby, start hardening, make air baths, wet wipes, walk more in the open air, exercise, then your child will be less sick. Do not forget a month before admission to the kindergarten to do all the necessary vaccinations.
Another of the main preparations is the teaching to independence. Coming to the kindergarten, the child should be able to walk on the pot himself, use a spoon and fork, drink from a mug, dress (the caregivers will help). And it's bad if the parents did not begin to teach it in advance, because then it will be hard for your child to learn everything in a short time. Then you need to distribute the home mode so that it coincides with the daily routine in the kindergarten. Daytime sleep is very important for the child. In kindergarten, children quickly get tired of noise, from an overabundance of emotions, quarrels, games, etc. and that's why they need to rest. If your child does not sleep during the day, then you must teach him that. Start with ordinary rest, such as reading books, a small rest, telling a fairy tale and gradually moving on to longer pauses, as a result, the baby will fall asleep. It becomes almost understandable what parents should prepare for.
Before you give the child to a kindergarten, you should get acquainted with teachers and nannies. You can bring your child for the first time for a short period of time. And you can stay with your child a little, so it will be easier for him to adapt.
Some mothers do not want to let go of their own blood and start crying, leaving home. Have pity on the child! He and so now it's hard, he remains in an unfamiliar place, and even with a large number of people unfamiliar to him, and here also the most native and close person is all in tears. Show your confidence, then the child will not be afraid of caregivers, he will trust them (because you trust!).
Adapt your child will be on average two months. At this time, the appetite may start to decrease, this is due either to unusual food (a new kind of food and taste), or it is a stressful reaction. But do not worry about it, if the child starts eating, at least a little from the plate, then the adaptation is successful. As for sleep, it will be difficult to fall asleep during the day, and the dream will not last long, and perhaps after awakening your baby will cry. Night sleep at this time will also be restless. After adaptation, sleep is normalized. Even in the period of adaptation, the child may perhaps forget what he knew before (using cutlery, tying shoelaces, etc.), but it will also pass, and even learn from his peers something new.
Do not be scared if on the second day the child cries much. He just already knows that now he will be brought and my mother will leave. Do not forget that children are manipulators. They hope that if you cry badly, it is likely that your mother will take him home.
Every evening, be interested in how his day went, what he saw, learned, or did, then he will be much more interesting, he will want to boast of new exploits, and after a while he will be in a hurry to the kindergarten. Here and so, the main thing is to properly prepare the child for kindergarten.
It is best in the kindergarten to adapt those children who grow up in a calm and friendly family. A growing person should always speak kind words and take care of him, then he will feel needed and protected.