Every day , something interesting happens on the playground. Here the character is born. It is on the playground: the school of communication, the kids learn to be friends, win, give in, and, if they lose, it's worth it.
We resolve conflicts. It must be remembered that your behavior is "permission" for the child to behave the same way. Therefore, no matter how acute or unpleasant the situation is, you must observe a culture of communication. Did your baby have a toy? Or is this impudent karapuz all swinging and swinging on a swing, not wanting to give them to others, and his mother does not seem to notice?
The causes of conflicts can be very different. And most of the time the children make up their minds and quickly forget the offense, but adults who could not restrain themselves and entered into opposition can for a long time remain enemies. Of course, it's best if the conflict is not prevented, and it does not wait for it. I saw that the kids were about to quarrel - switch their attention to something more interesting. On the playground: the school of communication will be all right, if all mothers or all popes learn to follow their children, will take into account the interests of others and be responsible for their actions and actions. Little children do not have the skills to get out of conflict situations, they do not understand that the younger ones have to give in. They know the word "I want" and at the time of the quarrel with the kids it's very difficult to try to explain something. The easiest way is to distract the children even before they started to quarrel and the conflict has not yet inflamed. For this, for example, you can distract a pre-stored toy or an offer to play a very interesting game.
Whatever happens , you must remember that it is impossible to raise your voice (to raise your hand, especially) to the child, both foreign and your own, however, never. Your main task is to take out of the quarrel of your baby and try to calm him down, at the same time calling for this and the mother of the second fighter. If the child has broken someone else's toy, the mother must offer something in return or show readiness to repair (financially compensate) the breakdown. You can not smile if you raise a hand on others. Even if the situation looks ridiculous. For example, he threatens a child who is much more. The kid can remember your reaction and try to "please" more than once. At a small age, children "have the right" to selfishness. It is difficult for them to understand why one can not swing for a long time on a swing and, conversely, why one can not push someone who does not want to release this swing. Therefore, an adult should be there, rather than walking on the playground separately, with other aunts. Try to explain to the child that toys should be shared and that it is very good that other children will soon give them up, teach them to change. If your child likes to imitate, especially the bad behavior of other children, try to choose a company for him. If your child has not acted the way you like, you should immediately show your displeasure.
We make claims . In case of occurrence on a children's playground: the school of communication of disputable situations needs to talk with children - their own and others' - and their parents respectfully and calmly. Your baby should see that you do not indulge all his whims blindly and, on the contrary, do not scold him just because he is your child, and you can not criticize another's. You must always act fairly, regardless of persons, then your son or daughter will try to behave the same way.