The first date, mutual sympathy, passion, love, this series of relationships that unfolds in a moment, or lasts a long time. You fly on the wings of love, spellbound by his charm, he gives flowers, leads to the theater, cinema. You start making plans for the future. At what time will the wedding be? What will it be like? How many children will you have? How will you live? And one day, you begin to doubt your feelings. There is nothing worse than a doubt, but whether it was love or just a passion. You start looking for answers to your questions.
- Scrolling through all your days spent together, you realize that he is not the hero of your novel, he is not so worthwhile, he does not sit like that. And anyway, you can not imagine living with him in the same apartment.
And the next question arises: if love has passed, what to do? That's like yesterday everything was fine, you fluttered on the wings of love, you could not wait for his call, from one of his eyes you were excited. And now, what did happen after all? Of course, you can only answer all the questions yourself, listen to your heart and find in it what you want to know. Just before you draw any conclusions, think about it well, maybe it's just fear. Maybe you're just afraid that your life will change, that you will be deprived of your freedom. You can break everything very quickly, but it's very difficult to build a relationship. Most likely this is another whim, think for a moment that you will leave it. He will meet the other and give her his warmth and affection, and you can meet another completely opposite of your former boyfriend. And a new boyfriend will not give you the joy of life that the former gave. Change is always scary, always afraid to make a mistake in choosing.
But, if, after all, this is not another whim, and love really ended. If love has passed, what to do? To the next time not to repeat the mistakes of the previous relationship. We must analyze completely from the first to the last day, what happened, why the love has passed. Maybe a young man, wrongly looked after you. Or you did not have mutual interests, except for the bed. And maybe in bed, he was not as good as it seemed at first. Strong relations are built on mutual respect and trust. If your young man began to lie from the very beginning, even a little lie, she already gives a sign, in order to think, and whether you should live with a lying person. Sex plays one of the important factors in the relationship, if from the very beginning you have a passion, then later sex can become primitive. Of course, you can always make some new things in your intimate relationships, but you'll get tired of playing solos all the time. Another factor in the relationship, it's mutual hobbies, no matter what, the main thing is that you both like it. If at least one of the above factors you do not have, then you have to think about whether it is worth continuing this relationship. And the most important thing to think about when choosing the next boyfriend, so as not to repeat the previous mistakes.
You decided that love still ended. How to tell this to your former lover? The main thing, in this case, not to offend a person, he did you nothing wrong. Without insults, without fuss, just call on a serious conversation and delicately say that between you everything is over. Just do not start a conversation with the fact that he is such a wonderful, beautiful person, and you better stay friends. All this is so banal and will not help him anything. Before you start a conversation, prepare mentally, pick up the right words, you know it well. It is always necessary to disperse nicely, without reproaches and scandals, in life anything can happen, maybe you will still live together and enjoy life.