So, what does a man want from a woman, what words will caress his ear, cheer up and inspire a sense of necessity and significance? What should we, women, say to our beloved guys to prove to them their care, to show love?
All these words, which are so necessary for every man, depend, for the most part, on what he needs for life. From those feelings, goals, emotions and achievements, with which he revels and enjoys. Here, of course, strictly individual: in each case, a man may want to hear something special, but there are also the main points in their lives, which allow you to find the exact answer to the question: "What does a man want from a woman?".
Perhaps, one of the main advantages of a man is his strength and reliability. I do not argue - not all men are like that, but I want to believe that your chosen one has these wonderful qualities. So why not tell him about it? Why not mention that you are behind him - like a stone wall? Is it your support, your belief in a happy future? We are sometimes afraid to say these words aloud. And it is not clear: why? Perhaps one of us is afraid of "jinxing", And someone thinks that from such words the guy will relax and cease to be so reliable and strong? I do not know, I can not say. I know with accuracy only one thing: no man will not refuse to hear that he serves as a real support for his weak beloved second half. So let's not deprive him of this pleasure, especially if he really deserves the title of "Man"!
What does every man want to hear from his girlfriend? Of course, praise, a sound and positive (necessary) assessment of his skills and talents. You do not think that it's just we who need timely praise, and it's only we who are spurred on to improve and improve? Men are the same as we are, for the most part. Why do not they want to hear from you: "Wow, Vovochka, what a fine fellow you are with me! So quickly I fixed the faucet in the kitchen - now it does not flow at all! ", Or" Yurochka, you are the best and cleverest of me: you are so praised by your leadership, and all this is not in vain, I always knew that a dizzying career awaits you! " . Such sweet speeches can and even need to be flavored with an equally sweet kiss that will finally confirm your man that everything he does is right. And that he is a real man who knows what he must be able to do.
Of course, and praise should be, as they say, limited. At least simply because pride and a shining star in the forehead "has not been canceled yet. They are very quickly included in cases where women simply lick their men with laudable odes. And the worst thing is that such "licked" guys begin to feel extremely uncomfortable with any criticism. And if, God forbid, you ever will not like what he did: beware of the storm! A man who is not understood and appreciated is no less terrible than a woman in a similar situation.
Therefore, let's decide so. Here he did something so global and unexpected, but extremely useful - praised him, do not skimp on kind words. Here he worked up to a well-deserved increase, say that he is a real brain, that he is a valuable shot, but it's too early to relax, since it's far to the top of the career ladder (well, maybe not far, but the way is, as they say, thorny and severe ). Or here I cleaned the house myself, which was never noticed before - it's also a fine fellow! You must always focus on the fact that you noticed that you appreciated this immortal feat. Well, so, under the noise, you can quietly moan, they say, "how can I, dear, get tired of this cleaning: both the back is hurting, and the leg is right here ... and you are so cheerful!". Here is a hint: maybe it will be removed from now on? And here's another reason to praise: you came from work tired, and you - a chic dinner, a bottle of your favorite wine and he, so languid and gentle. He carefully undresses you, feeds you, makes an exquisite massage, puts them in your arms in the bedroom, proves once again how strong his love is, and then goes to wash dishes and remove traces of romance. Well, let it happen very often - but if it happens, why not in the morning snuggle up to him and not whisper affectionate: "Thank you for the evening, my love, you were beautiful!". Believe me, such words and your sincere happy eyes are the best incentive to repeat this romantic feat soon! And then, how often women, all night with such passion, drunk with love, in the morning again become a little grouchy. And the "sawing" begins: they say, and the wine was sour, and the dishes were badly washed, and in bed it was not very good either. And then we complain: they say, where is our mutual tenderness gone, where has everything gone?
Well, the last in our list, but, perhaps, the first in importance is the talk about love. Yes, at first glance, the banal and sugary sweet: "I love you" and "I need you", too, no one has canceled. You yourself, without these words, how do you feel? Does not thought flashed through the mind, they say, if they do not speak, then maybe they fell out of love and they do not want to know me anymore, just to be afraid? That's the same for men: let them make a face brick and argue that they are "babus slobber" is completely not interesting and not needed, yet deep in the soul (and maybe not so deep as they want to show it) they so they want to hear from us how we love and appreciate them! And to give them this feeling again and again with actions backed up by gentle words is our sacred duty (however, they also have their duty, although they often forget about it).
A woman must be wise and strong, she must be able to manage the man invisibly, guide him, guide him in the right direction. No, I'm not talking about blind servile obedience - slaves are not in vogue now, but sometimes men are ready to commit such insane acts, from which we simply have to dissuade them! And here it will be necessary to be able to find the right and correct words that will not only stop him, but also pushed him to reflect in the direction you need both.
That's why you need to know: what a man wants from a woman, what words will be able to convince him in something, stop, direct. And in the same way your man knows how you can "take" you. And it's not bad, it's not manipulation - it's just a joint life, nuances that help to keep the world in it.