In order to determine how to behave with a conflicting husband, you first need to know the reasons for his behavior. It happens that people become conflict because of an excessive sense of justice, pedantry, cleanliness and much more. To know how to solve problems with your husband, think about what becomes the cause of conflict.
If you know that a loved one becomes conflicting because someone is behaving dishonestly, in this case it is difficult to blame. After all, he, in fact, is fighting for justice. Another thing is that in our life it is not always worth defending it, because it can end badly. Therefore, if something happens to the husband constantly, because of his honesty and the inherent desire for justice, one should never blame him for it. On the contrary, you should be proud of such a person, because it is not just a conflict, but for a good reason. But, of course, sometimes guys bend the stick and begin to defend the right opinion, even where such behavior can obviously harm him, you or even someone else's. In this case, you need to behave calmly and convincingly. Try to talk to your husband and explain that you are proud of him for being able to defend his and your honor. But, you also understand that he constantly exposes himself to danger, loses his job or with him there are other troubles that harm him. Therefore, you worry about him and ask him to restrain himself sometimes. Because, you need not only a fair husband, but also a living and healthy one. Of course, it is difficult for any man to accept and accept such words. If a woman asks him about this, he begins to feel that she wants to leave him without the right to be a "real man". What can we say about those who have a sharp sense of justice. Therefore, of course, he will not listen to you from the first time. Even if he pretends to understand everything, he will still behave like he did before. But, do not immediately give up and quietly get angry. After every conflict that harms him or you, talk to him, ask, calmly persuade and do not blame. In the end, a loving person will find the strength to step over his principles because of you. The main thing is to bring him right to this idea, without offending or humiliating him.
If conflicts in the family occur at the household level, then you need to determine how right your husband is. After all, there are women who do not know how to clean and cook, quietly live their own pleasure, not intending to learn anything. If this is the case, try to rebuild yourself. Nobody forces you to do absolutely all household chores. Try to split everything equally. But, do not pay no attention to the fact that the house is not cleaned, the husband himself has been cooking dumplings for two weeks, and you are quietly doing your own business.
But, it also happens that a loved one starts to make claims, because he is used to seeing everything as ideal. A woman who also works, it is difficult to be perfect in everything. Therefore, if conflicts arise on domestic grounds, calmly explain to your loved one that you are trying so hard that everything is clean, tidy and tasty prepared. If it, something does not suit you - let it help you and remove those flaws that come to his eyes. After all, there is nothing complicated in this, especially since you are already doing the main job already. And he only needs to bring her to the state of the ideal. Of course, not all men react adequately to such words. Some start talking about direct female duties and similar things. In that case, you just can not react. If you know that he will scream and calm down, just skip over everything and do not take it to heart. Of course, every woman is uncomfortable when they do not appreciate her work. But, if you understand that you are ready to tolerate such a minus of your beloved, then just abstract from his words. If a man always makes scandals, insults and humiliates you, then think about why you should build a family with such a despot. In general, in the case when guys behave too conflictually towards girls, even before the wedding, you need to think about how to live with such a person and whether to make such sacrifices.
There are also cases when the husband is just perfect at home, but, constantly in conflict with friends and relatives of his wife. In this case, first you need to understand what is the reason. This is a situation where people simply do not agree with the characters, or the husband sees something that you do not notice and tries to change it or to fence you off. Of course, it is difficult to look for flaws in loved ones and close ones, but in such situations it is necessary to be realistic. And, if you notice that the behavior of the husband is far from groundless, then think about whether you should not restrict communication with some people.
Well, if the husband just does not get along with your friends, then you need to talk with him for purity and offer a compromise. Let him let you go to friends alone and ignore them when they come to visit. In return, you can offer something. Most likely, every man has things and desires, which he can realize, if he agrees to this way out of the situation. Of course, one can not call such a solution the best, but it's better to have a cold and silent neutrality than a war in which you will find yourself between two fires. Therefore, try to resolve the conflict peacefully and simply do not allow its further occurrence.