Myths about anal sex
Women, as emotional creatures, like to wind themselves up on different occasions, and also come up with excuses if some idea does not like them very much. Fortunately, some of their experiences are completely groundless. Lovely ladies, let's get rid of the legends cultivated for generations - consider together some of the most common prejudices about anal sex:
- Myth 1: "It's painful, unaesthetic, and, in general, disgusting." There is an insignificant part of the truth in this statement - the process can really not be pleasant, if not prepared in advance.
- Myth 2: "It's impossible to have pleasure from anal sex". Again, it all depends on the degree of your preparation, not only physical, but also moral - if you set yourself up, that this is a disgusting procedure that is not satisfying, then it will be so.
- Myth 3: "My chair will be broken and, in general, it is dangerous for health". Of course, if you do not use enough lubricant and strengthen the muscles of the anus, there is a high probability of anorectal dysfunction (when the sphincter is damaged, the rectum is unable to control the excrement). However, with simple rules, this possibility is reduced to zero.
Tips for a sexologist: how to properly engage in anal sex
In fact, if properly prepared, anal sex can bring incredible satisfaction to both partners, since the rectal opening is one of the erogenous zones in women, and for men it is of great importance that the muscles in the anus are much more tightly wrapped around the penis.
- First of all, it is necessary to prepare an anus to the act itself - take care of its hygiene and expand it, abundantly lubricating fingers and inserting them into the anus, gently massaging.
- The emotional preparation, as well as the choice of the right pose for penetration - for example, the legs pressed to the abdomen in the position on the side - is of great importance in obtaining pleasure and minimizing the pain.
- Do not forget about the abundant grease - do not be afraid to go too far with it in this case. It is best to choose a special anti-inflammatory and disinfectant.
- In anal sex, the presence of a condom is also very important: firstly, it is an obligatory condition for the hygienic process, and secondly, there is a lower risk of picking up any disease, since the rectal mucosa is very sensitive to infections.
- Penetration should be as unhurried and neat as possible - it is best to introduce a member gradually. Forget about porn videos that promote hard anal sex - usually, porn stars long prepare for such an act.
- After the completion of anal intercourse, it is necessary several times to compress the muscles of the anus - they will soon come to their usual state, and also lubricate it with a gentle cream or gel.
- If you have entered into the taste of anal sex - do not overdo it: to maintain muscle tone and preserve the microflora of the rectum, you should not do it 1-2 times a month.
Remember, if your sex life has turned into a kind of routine "obligatory", then this is a wonderful way to revive relationships and please each other with new erotic sensations.