Rules of Conduct on a Date with Young Men

A date is special. You can either please a person and warm up interest in yourself or, on the contrary, scare them away. To your behavior does not embarrass a person, you need to follow some simple rules.


The first rule of behavior on a date with a young man refers to the beginning of a romantic relationship. It is better if the place and circumstances of the first date will be offered by a young man. Initiative in this matter should come from him. And even if the girl does not enthrall the proposed, say - you are not a fan of this restaurant, for the first time you should not make your own proposal. Another thing, if a young man himself asks you about preferences, then you can orient him, what would you prefer. In subsequent meetings, circumstances and places may be agreed upon between you, and the girl herself may make proposals.

The guy will show a good tone if he calls back on the eve and says that he is looking forward to the meeting impatiently, and will also specify if the plans have changed. But, if this did not happen, you should not call.

An important rule of conduct during a date - do not talk on the phone and do not send sms without special need. By this you show your indifference to the interlocutor, and even disrespect. An important call and an urgent discussion with a friend of the latest news are completely different things.

When going on a first date, do not overdo it with makeup and perfume. Try to look natural and appropriate. Dresses must be different for going to the movies, to the park or to the restaurant. And still remember that "they meet on clothes", so try to look great.

Another rule of conduct on dates with young men. The fact that a girl should be late is an obsolete stereotype. Making yourself wait is a sign of disrespect. It can only be delayed for a few minutes to come after your companion.

Do not tell me about your past relationship. In general, be a bit restrained in conversation, do not immediately tell about all your shortcomings and praise the dignity. Allow the young man to be the master of the conversation. Be attentive to the questions you ask. Do not ask about the income of the satellite and its health.

Another scrupulous moment - payment of the bill, for example, in a restaurant at the end of dinner. A man should take the initiative and pay the bill, but if you basically insist on paying half, then the satellite should not refuse. Respect for the principles and habits of each other is the key to success.

Do not try to please a partner, agreeing with him in everything. You should have your own point of view. But if it differs from the interlocutor's opinion, then it should be expressed politely, and not to declare about his wrongness.

If a person does not arouse your sympathy during the meeting, do not rush to conclusions - the first impression may be erroneous. After all, a meeting is a kind of game, and no matter how hard you try, its participants behave not quite naturally ... In any case, remain polite until the end and do not respond immediately with a sharp categorical refusal from the second meeting, it is better to leave the question without a definite answer. Be sure to thank for the pleasant and interesting time spent. And the last rule, at the end of the date, do not offer the next meeting first. And, if a long-awaited call has not been received in the next few days, do not show undue initiative and do not make hasty conclusions.

The rules of behavior on dates with young men are simple, but their implementation will help to produce the desired favorable impression. In general, the rules are rules, but do not forget that you are going to a meeting with a living interesting person, and even if something goes wrong, think, maybe he also worries? Be friendly, smile and everything will be fine!

Good luck to you!