Very often, it is at the moment when the wife has lost an intimate interest in her spouse, dark clouds are gathering over the family life. This, in itself, can involuntarily lead to the collapse of your marriage. Of course, you can not say that you completely stopped loving your husband. You still appreciate it, respect it, you feel a habit for it. But, to perceive it as a man for sexual relations, you completely stopped. Habit, life, long life under one roof, monotony in sex - it all affects the sexual drive and as a result, you just, on a subconscious level, force yourself to go to bed with him. Although before it was for you almost an idol and the embodiment of a real man. And then everything changed so dramatically and irrevocably. Of course, the peak of all positive feelings, can not last a long time and in every second family, sooner or later, there is such a problem. Hugs and kisses do not bring you joy, but on the contrary, cause nervous irritation, and the performance of marital duty, is now a duty, a heavy and binding business. This, of course, knocks you out of the habitual life-track, and leads to frequent quarrels arising from your irritability. So how do you get out of this delicate problem and understand for yourself what to do if the husband became a wife is not interesting as a man? Let's try a little about this.
First of all, you need to understand yourself. If you really ceased to be interested in your spouse, as a sexual partner means, everything below is listed exactly about you. When, you, being alone, you simply become bored from each other. To be in proud solitude, for you is much more pleasant than what is in his company. You stopped pampering him with beautiful clothes, hair, makeup and even more so, bright erotic underwear. Plus, you noticed that it became visibly less jealous of other women. On his proposal to have sex, you have a lot of reasons and excuses in order to not do it. Well, if it's happened between you, you're waiting for the "finale" faster. And, during the process itself, you do not pamper at all with kisses and caresses. And then we add that all the preludes on his part, you have nothing more than irritation. Because of this, you just can not relax and have fun, and then, in your head, the thought constantly revolves: "Why did you today agree to have sex with him?". More precisely, the sexual relationship has become for you, as something far away and unearthly, that is, completely uninteresting and unnecessary. The most important thing is that you began to think about the fact that you are losing something important in life, feeling just devastated and sexually unsatisfied. You began to pay attention to outsiders. Trying to find in them, what you lack in life. Here, even before treason is not far away. Although you will receive from betrayal, only sexual satisfaction, and your inner world, will remain completely forgotten and equally devastated. After all, the feeling of guilt is much higher than your dissatisfaction. Yes, and change from this, a little. And, as a result, you continue to believe that you should still be together. This is the main life upheaval, so called unmet wife. And if you live that way, then you certainly need to change this. It is not necessary, hopes that the husband himself will guess about this and try to change something. Or just talk to you.
Of course, the lack of a full-fledged intimate life, very seriously destroys the psychological state of any woman. Simply, the further you tolerate it, the more you will become irritable and nervous. Absolutely everything will act on you. Your spouse will simply drown in reproaches and reproaches from your side. And as a sad result, this can lead to a break in your relationship.
In the name of avoiding it all, first of all, think about yourself. You, in fact, are unlikely to be left alone. And, in the end, so to live on, tormenting yourself and your psyche. The main way out of this situation is again to try to fall in love with your spouse and thereby bring about a wave of new interest in your relationship. You say, it's complicated. Believe in the so-called rule of the three "H", which says that nothing is impossible. Look at him from the other side, you are not without reason, you still live with this person. And, besides, the fact that you are irritated in him, he still has a lot of pluses. Take even those for which you loved him once, and add to them acquired. Imagine a situation that he will go to another woman (think up in your subconscious the image of an artful rival, even if there is none) and you will not have anything. Here then, you will have a sense of ownership. You will spontaneously do it in such a way as to interest and retain it in all aspects.
And, as additives to everything, to revive the whole romance of feelings, organize a mutual romantic holiday. Where only you and he will be. For him, you can choose the place where you have already rested, during the peak of your feelings. And just try to repeat everything, following the old footsteps of your relationship.
And, of course, the best option will be your mutual conversation on the topic: "What if the husband became a wife is not interesting as a man?", In which you should tune in to a positive result. This frank conversation can solve a lot. The main thing is not afraid of him and do not hesitate to express what worries you. And you together will find a way out of this problem. Do not be shy, offer him new experiments in sex. Believe me, something new and exotic will certainly help you to experience a new interest in your spouse, like a man.