Of course, the experience of the first serious relationship between a guy and a girl does not always end with a wedding, national festivities and the birth of children. Often they end in a gap, because young people are not always ready to turn their lives 180 degrees and start it anew, as if from a clean slate. Someone else did not walk up, someone could not get used to the strange habits of his half, someone was dissatisfied with the fact that serious relationships took away his priceless freedom - and again wanted to free. But this is life, and the first relationship is first and foremost, to give the couple an idea of what is life, responsibility, and how all this can affect love (and can it?).
That's in your life the moment has come when you are not satisfied with walks under the moon every three days, when your favorite day off can give you time. Nabili nosminu these chocolate candies, which were so touchingly received in their first meetings and meetings. Tired of falling asleep, hugging a pillow, alone, in a cold bed. Tired before going to sleep writing long messages about his infinite love. And so you want to always be close, meet him from work, prepare him a delicious dinner. Ask what happened to him during this day, to watch how he wearily sinks to the sofa after a hard day's work. Do him a relaxing massage and talk about what kind of guy you have, how strong and intelligent he is. Gently touch the hair with your hand, breathe in your favorite fragrance ... And before going to sleep, do not write long petitions about love, but gently whisper them in your ear, feeling your heart beat faster and faster with your words. To feel his mute response in the way he gently rakes you into his strong arms, covering his face with kisses ... Yes, there comes in the life of each of us the moment when most of all you want just this and that's it.
You gladly notice his reaction - I think he is also ready for a serious relationship, he knows that he can not live without you and the day, it's just as hard for him to leave your door. He even more often calls you to himself, to stay with an overnight stay, and after to get acquainted with his parents. Or do rent an apartment and live separately from everyone, in your heavenly, happy and quiet corner. And you give your consent, not hesitating, because he just voiced what you yourself have long dreamed of!
And now you find a suitable nest and move into it, full of hope for a brighter future. You, of course, know that a serious relationship between a guy and a girl is a new stage in the development of your love, a big step forward, responsible and not at all childish. And you, it seems, are ready to do it, you are sure of your strengths and that your love will destroy all the obstacles that can stand in your way of life.
At first you live a soul in the soul, try your best to not let your life eat your romance. You clean it together, every day you excel in the kitchen, to please your beloved with an unexpected tasty dish. He does not forget to give you flowers and bring coffee to bed, he still eagerly catches your words about love and does not get tired of proving his feelings. For the weekend you make a real entertainment program and do not sit at home, but try to spend time fun and with benefit. Once a week, all your friends gather in your house to arrange a noisy party and come off to the fullest.
Then gradually your leisure becomes monotonous. If a month ago you could not sit in four walls, but now it's too lazy to get together somewhere. It seems to you that everything you could have - you've already seen. In the cafe you do not want. In the movie - too. So you just lie on the couch, embracing, and watch TV. Or take turns sitting at the computer. Or ... in general, there are many options, but they are all domestic.
Then you get bored with such monotony in life, you want to go have fun with your girlfriends the way you used to go for a walk in the nightclub before the morning, and afterwards meet the crimson dawn on the beach. He wants to arrange a grandiose shabashka in the circle of friends, plenty to drink beer and play bowling or billiards. But you can not realize your dreams, because at home you are again waiting for cleaning, there is a mountain of dirty laundry in the basket, and nothing else is ready for dinner. He does not go to carouse with friends out of solidarity.
It takes a little more time, you begin to seriously annoy all the domestic chores. At the same time, a beloved person more often after work lingers with friends in a cafe to relieve tension after a day's work. You retaliate your girlfriend, she takes a bottle of wine with you - and you arrange a real session of psychoanalysis, which is accompanied by uncomplicated complaints about "such a life." The girlfriend nods sympathetically and pours you more and more, in parallel telling about how yesterday they were lit up with girls in a nightclub. And you catch yourself thinking that you are infinitely jealous of the freedom of their movements. And you decide, without giving a damn about everything, go for a walk.
When a slightly tipsy guy comes home and does not find you there, he starts to call, and when you hear that you are in a nightclub, frankly outraged by your negligence towards him: how could you, because I do not even have anything to eat? A quarrel is beginning, which continues when you step over the threshold of the apartment ... And if you let things go by themselves, very soon you will lose this relationship, which you may later regret.
This, of course, is just one of the options for how your life can go after you decide on a serious relationship. Everything happens quite differently, especially if people are really ready for what awaits them. In any case - the first serious relationship is not only a test of love for strength, but also a real test in life, after which you will be able to say that you are a person really grown-up and intelligent, that you are ready to seek compromises in difficult situations and endure certain moments , educate your loved one and change yourself, if circumstances so require.