Why and who has the Marilyn Monroe Syndrome
- Did you get stuck in a long relationship with a man who acted on your nerves, making you unhappy?
- Are you dreaming of getting married, doing all that is necessary for it, and a suitable candidate for husbands does not appear?
- Have you ever felt that out of all men you always choose alcoholics, inaccessible, lovers of dismissing your hands, emotionally cold, unreliable, indifferent, degrading your dignity, unattainable? At the same time, you do not notice worthy and normal men, because they do not touch your heart.
- Have you ever caught yourself thinking that when opportunities swim right into your hands, you have a feeling of insecurity, and you start to pass, passing them by yourself?
- Do you abuse food and / or alcohol?
- Do you look at yourself in the mirror with disgust and fear, although others say that you are attractive?
If most of the questions you answered in the affirmative, then most likely you have "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome" - emotional disease. This term was proposed by the first researchers of this problem by the psychologist Elizabeth McCavoy and the writer Susan Izraelson, who became the authors of the same book. The reasons why the authors of the book gave the syndrome the name of the famous actress, lie in the peculiarities of her life.
Marilyn Monroe was successful, sexy and beautiful. But looking at the mirror, she always saw an ugly loser who did not deserve happiness. About Marilyn, almost all men dreamed, but she was drawn to those men whose relationship with her had broken her essence.
The roots of this behavior stretch from childhood. Since the majority of women suffering from this syndrome are from dysfunctional, dysfunctional families, where parents did not give children unconditional love, they did not satisfy the emotional needs of their child. Therefore, today's not sure woman, desperately looking for love - it's yesterday's little girl who did not receive from the parents of love. Therefore, each time she will find herself a partner who would remind her of an emotionally cold papa or an abandoned mother, trying, therefore, to earn their love. She will try again and again to prove to herself and the whole world that "she is good", that "it's what you can love for." In childhood, lacking affection, warmth and love, onasama will become too caring, covetous and affectionate, satisfying, however, her need for the aforementioned feelings. Especially too much it will show to the men who need it, as it seems to her.
How to get rid of syndrome
There are 10 commandments that will help cure the Marilyn Monroe Syndrome. Women who gave a similar status to the name, believe that Marilyn Monroe's syndrome is treated. The researchers believe that to fully recover the woman should strictly adhere to such rules:
- A woman should love herself with unconditional love.
- Recovering for her should be a matter of all life.
- A woman should respect herself.
- All the care to direct only to yourself.
- Believe in yourself without a drop of doubt.
- Take care of your body and love it.
- All their strength to give to rebuild their mind, soul and body.
- Enjoy your life.
- Become open to new ideas, especially those that can change lives.
- Promise yourself that she will definitely win the Marilyn Monroe Syndrome.