On the threshold of our age of emancipation and feminism, respectively, once the fragile and tender creation called "woman" has degenerated into a free, independent, purposeful individual of the female sex, but still with male habits. A woman more and more takes on a male role in society. She earns her living, she moves the dresser like a fluff, while responding that he is just not standing there. If necessary, he will nail the nail, repair the carpet, remove the carpets, analyze the computer for the slightest details, and then easily reassemble it, but there will appear a couple of new elements, even if not necessary. But sooner or later this sharp independent being falls in love. And something incomprehensible happens in her mind. Her brain executes the program - nbsp; "Reprogram". And then rushed. She begins to be interested in questions that never attracted her attention before. She begins to do things that she would never have done before. So the question arises - "why?". And everything is simple, a wave of love and marriage has overtaken her. For her, everything is new and unidentified. She discovered a completely different world. The world of joint recreation, hanging out, long preparations for the holidays, and then all the same long cleaning after them. In this world, it is difficult to remain yourself in all situations. After all, marriage is a difficult and laborious work between two people. This is the territory with its own rules. Now let's see what a woman who is married should do.
The first action. The curtain opens
First of all, a woman should think positively. Optimism, positive thinking, sincere kindness - this is the basis of female power and charisma. And this, in turn, gives an opportunity to evaluate everything from a positive point of view, to give positive assessments to people, events, situations, in everything to see beauty, opportunities and a promising future. Everyone wants to live on a positive wave, so it's strange that men are drawn to cheerful, cheerful women. It's not for nothing that they say, "With whom you are led, that you will be typed." Then a man will look at life through a positive lens. Accordingly, in such a marriage there is no place for quarrels and turmoil.
The second action
Secondly, a woman who is married should fill herself and others with vital energy. Think about yourself when she has lost interest in everything new, to life, there will be no hobbies and hobbies, when she gradually crawls on her home-made way of living, stops going to any interesting events, museums, galleries, exhibitions. Her once well-groomed hair will turn into an incomprehensible shabby tail. Then it will gradually begin to turn into a "jellyfish". Well, tell me, will you be interested in a man who is simply tired of his life? Therefore, dear devotees, we must monitor ourselves, both physically and spiritually. "In a healthy body healthy mind!". We go in for sports, drink vitamins, read literature, find interesting, fascinating sites, visit all kinds of circles and courses, in general, develop, do not stand still, do not degrade!
Intermission
The second item cute flows into the third - we support beauty and health. Man likes harmony, harmony in relationships, in people, in the environment. After all, nature in us initially laid harmony, coherence and symmetry. How often do you catch yourself being briefly watching someone, and why is this happening? It's simple, we like beauty, especially to contemplate this beauty in someone. We are attracted to beautiful people, attracted by their natural harmony and grace. In fact, it is very difficult to maintain harmony in oneself, let alone maintain harmony in relationships. After all, living together, living together is a constant contemplation of each other. And it is not uncommon that at some point this contemplation can no longer bring that pleasure, that before. And all this is due to the fact that, getting used to and perceiving each other as something familiar, the spouses begin to neglect their appearance and every day less and less to care for it. Is this the woman who is married? Therefore, beauty, health and grooming - an integral part of a full family life.
Action third
Do you know what is still an important factor in healthy family relationships? Be different. People grow, develop, change their views on certain things, interests change. So why not bring in the relationship of novelty and spontaneity. Of course, everyday life requires from us the accuracy of thinking, confidence in action, organization in matters, order in the environment. But sooner or later this boring everyday life begins to drag out, and we turn into robots. Therefore, we must stop, look around, think about what all the same the soul wants and acts. It can be anything, and just a romantic dinner for two by the light of a shimmering candle, and not a planned trip to the cinema, and stress relief with a shooting range, carousels and sweet cotton wool. Perhaps you once had some idea or dream, for the implementation of which your beloved is needed. Think about it properly, and remember something.
The curtain closes
If to reflect, the married woman so comprehensively developed creation. She knows that it is necessary to wash things inside out, that cabbage leaves will get tastier if you immediately add minced carrots and onions to minced meat, she knows that children are not so easy to bring up. She knows that tupps are not clips, she knows what a domain, provider and Skype is, what is a family budget, and generally there are many more clever words.
And was it interesting to you that this is the thought of the men of those same women who are married. I somehow casually asked my husband what, in his opinion, should a married woman do? And you know, the answer was so simple and at the same time colossally truthful - "a woman who is married should do what the most ordinary woman, only better!". Therefore, dear devotees, learn to be better in everything!