Albert Camus.
Today in the world there are more and more people suffering from loneliness and constantly wondering - why is it so hard to find your love?
One of the main reasons for failures in finding your love is the mindset of those seeking their soul mate, that they will love only when they fall in love themselves and find people who fall in love with them. Singles look for their love, but they are stingy on this feeling. Love is transferred to tomorrow and, just like Alberta, Alberta, does not understand that tomorrow will never come. Why? The more a person loves, the stronger the sympathy and interest of others, and on the contrary - the lack of love will alienate others.
The men and women who have embarked on this path, naturally, do not realize this psychological attitude, but it is found regularly. At a party, a holiday, in a theater, a movie with an enviable constancy, one and the same situation develops: at any event, a woman seeking a love, having talked with a pair of men and not finding the prince on a white horse, leaves or communicates only with her acquaintances, and all other people simply cease to exist.
Determine whether you are putting off your love, which means life, for tomorrow, you can try on the following actions: if you delay the purchase of beautiful things, diet, interesting trips and outlets to the light and the like for that "great" day in the future, when you meet love, then you live tomorrow and find your love will be extremely difficult. In order not to waste time and find your one and only half you need to learn those qualities that interest the future satellite life, learn to give and receive love. All this will attract to you precisely those people who possess the qualities you need.
In addition to what has been considered, there may be other causes of loneliness, for the detection of which often essential temporary, psychological, possibly financial and other costs are required. The most important thing here is not to lose hope for better times.
Whatever was not so difficult to find your love, to a certain extent, of course, you need to consider a number of interesting points. It is necessary to look around at work - suddenly a colleague sitting at a nearby table is your half? You can try to communicate with colleagues, and perhaps the relationship will grow into something more meaningful, not necessarily love, but for example a sincere and strong friendship, which is also of considerable importance.
You can, having settled in the comfort of your home, make an acquaintance through the Internet, which, if you are prompt, is likely to result in something more meaningful. The street also provides great opportunities for dating - sometimes just a couple of words in a shop, a bus or on an alley in a park that would find a long-sought person.
It is also possible to get acquainted in clubs, theaters, cinematography, restaurants and other public places, as well as at a resort or in various tourist trips. In these cases it is important to remember that human behavior, its appearance can determine its respectability, this is especially important in cases of fraud and frequent scams. A novel at sea, rather limited to only sex, which will bring pleasure, but will end as soon as you part on different sides and weights. There are many more ways to get acquainted and find your soul mate, here the main thing is not to sit still and wait when it comes, and act and then you do not have to think about how and why it's so hard to find your love.