The number of supporters of joint births is increasing every year. Women who gave birth with their husbands, and experts say that the presence of a loved one provides a favorable atmosphere, soothes the expectant mother. In addition, if the pregnant woman begins to worry too much, the husband will help her to establish contact with the medical staff. Childbirth is a very emotional process, and the feeling that a loved one is around gives the woman confidence. Note: Dad in the delivery room is not just a sympathetic observer. Ways to help enough: from the back massage and reading aloud the beloved books or magazines in the long period of fights to the session of joint breathing according to a special scheme with attempts. Yes, and just put in time a strong shoulder, in which you can grab the most painful moment, also means a lot. The presence of the pope plays a huge role for the newborn. In psychology, there is the concept of "imprinting", that is, imprinting.
Experts say that the first 30-40 minutes after the birth of a baby is in a wakeful state. He studies, literally absorbs the surrounding reality. What a little man will see and remember in these important half an hour, influences his further perception of the world. It is believed that the newborns adopted by the fathers establish an unusually strong two-way communication with them, and it does not disappear anywhere in the course of time, but remains between them for all subsequent years. As for the popes themselves, many of them the presence of the birth of their own child with the sacrament of giving presents incomparable experiences with nothing. Most often this event remains the most significant in their life.
Consider the nuances
Despite all the positive aspects of joint births, experts warn: this is an extremely important step for each pair. This solution requires an exclusively individual approach. After all, if one of the partners is not ready for him, all the advantages of such births will be insignificant, but the negative consequences for the whole family can be serious.
If a woman is not psychologically ready for the presence of her husband (for example, she has hidden complexes), this can greatly tighten and complicate the course of childbirth.
In some popes, the presence of the wife's suffering causes an extremely painful sense of guilt, which is then difficult to get rid of. The experience of partner birth can negatively affect the sexual attraction to the partner.
Have you firmly decided to do this together? Then do not be afraid. It is known that such a complication arises only if the decision of future parents was not well thought out. The pope, who wants to participate in the process, but is not sure that he will withstand such a test, can compromise: be with his wife in the longest and most painful period during fights, and wait for the most troubling moments at the door of the delivery room. Do not forget: in the joint, and in traditional childbirth, the main thing is the result. This, of course, a healthy baby and loving each other caring parents. So there is nothing to worry about if for some reason you did not go through the period of childbirth together from "a" to "I". After all, there are so many amazing moments ahead that you will live with the whole family!