His style: a real man. And what should a real man do? He never talks about his problems, getting off on duty phrases like "Everything is under control." But he asks about your troubles and categorically declares that everything will be fixed. Himself. And then he composes the story of victory over the enemies. What's the matter: Do you remember how at the beginning of your romance you were crazy about carrying you in your arms and blowing out unwary dust particles? You want it to be this way, and your boyfriend does not have anything to do but represent a real man. He is afraid to admit that he can not do it - but what if you look at him with a weakling and quit?
A glance at the future: he still manages to cope with his problems, but you remain unresolved. It happens that his inventions are only confusing. You're angry, and he snarls, that you could at least sometimes do something yourself.
Lifebuoy: try to lay down the crown and change roles. Surely the situation has already bothered you, so gently explain to the guy: you want (and most importantly, you can) deal with your own troubles yourself, because otherwise you will feel weak and useless, and he will still remain a real man. But you are always happy with his advice and help. And ask him to share problems, because you love him and want to help. As you "modest" girlish forces, you can do a lot.
Trying to look special.
His style: a certified storyteller. In the kindergarten, he saved a hundred hostages, and a year ago he was noticed in the club and called to dance on Broadway, but he refused from for the sake of your relationship. Well done. But, is this a real man.
What's wrong: the banal insecurity in itself again. The guy is afraid that he will be lost on the background of your other fans, or he wants to outdo your ex (of course, it was the world champion in karate and in general a real man). For your attention, the poor man is ready to invent anything, and do anything.
Looking to the future: sooner or later you will find out that all this is a lie. So you fell in love with a man who simply does not exist? Well, do not be surprised if he says goodbye that he lied to you because of an important government task.
Lifebuoy: if this guy is really dear to you, take it into your own hands. It makes no sense to say directly that you know about his lies - being caught in lies by a close person is terribly insulting. More often ask about the most usual things and do not forget it even on trifles (but all the same for the matter).
Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site