Modern women are business and independent personalities, but in relations with men they become completely helpless. If even between the pair there is the most insignificant quarrel, the woman is lost, not finding the right words for reconciliation. As they say in the East, good words can appease even the most evil serpent. In order to strengthen or restore relationships with a man, sometimes just a few pleasant and affectionate words. In addition, a woman should know who, when and what words to say.
Determine who to say these words. Of course, these words will be addressed to the beloved man. Now let's clarify when he says nice words? Yes, all the time! It remains to find out what words to say to a man? Even after long relations, partners often complain that they have ceased to understand each other and are speaking different languages. These words are repeated endlessly.
Can stop repeating the hackneyed phrase and just try to understand the language of a loved one? Find a shortcut to his heart? This can be done in simple words. For example, often does a woman say to a man: "Sit a little with me." By the way, psychologists say that such words are pronounced by men. A man feels more comfortable when he goes anywhere with his beloved woman.
In the family from the very beginning it is necessary to work out a rule that the partners will do everything together. However, unlike a woman, a man needs from time to time verbal stimulation. We should praise him and thank him for his help. There are times when a man will need the assistance of a woman in special cases, for example, advice, what a gift to buy a boss. In such cases, you can not deny him. Do not deny a man, it is better to use this situation to your advantage.
Do not grudge words of praise and gratitude. Your husband will be able to appreciate your support someday. Often enough for a woman to notice his victory, even the smallest. If she still can note this success with words, we can assume that he is at her feet. Filled with a snarl phrase: "a woman loves the ears, and the man's eyes" is not entirely accurate. Pleasant words like to hear men, too. So do not skimp on the praise, although you can not go too far. Moderation is good in everything.
A word is a tool that everyone can use. However, not everyone can use this tool rationally. Moreover, the word can make a man "fly", but in a word it can be "killed."
It is not necessary to pronounce these words, they can be written on a postcard or sent by e-mail. A man will be pleased to receive such a visual message when he is in the office.
What kind of words do men like to hear? Is there a specific list of such words? Hardly? !! But it is not necessary to call a man even affectionately called bestial names: "bunny", "bear", etc. It is better to replace them with traditional ones: "dear", "sweet," "beloved," etc. It's hard to say what words one likes to hear men in certain situations. This can be determined by trial and error. A woman will have to hone her skills. She should be generous and open the heart of a man with kind words.
Words of love and compliments are recommended to accompany with a touch. When touching is said, sexual contact is not always understood. You can walk down the street or shopping, holding hands. Watch TV on the couch, embracing, and also at breakfast to pat over the head of your man and add the words: "What a good, dear". After such a breakfast, a thank-you kiss from a man is guaranteed. How to know, perhaps, such a relationship and not enough partners for a long time. In a romantic relationship, the parties must be attentive. It is worth paying attention to serious or joking statements of his second half. It is necessary to listen to your beloved person and pay attention to what he "requires". What pleases him most: pleasant words, gifts, joint walks, etc.?
Naturally, lovers have sex. What does a man want to hear during sex? Science has shown that the female brain is designed so that it can do several things at the same time. Here men, having sex, can concentrate only on one lesson. Therefore, most often during sex, men are silent. However, this does not mean that they can not hear during sex. By nature, a strong sex is a hunter. That's why he likes when during sex his woman is most excited. Such a state the woman will best show not only actions, but also words. The girl should inform the man with words, at what stage of the process of satisfaction she is. Words during sex contribute to increased masculine arousal.
Words should not only enhance the sexual attraction of a man, but can help a girl to arrange a lover to herself. Therefore, partners during sex must voice all their desires. You can not regulate words during sex. Someone likes to hear intimate words at this time, someone - tender, someone - sophisticated, and someone even vulgar. But most of the time men are happy when, during sex, they hear how good his partner is. The compliment, expressed by the girl silently in the ear, will give him no less pleasure than sex itself. Thus these words can be the most simple and banal, for example, to say that he is a god in bed or unique.
Voluptuous words must be accompanied by a languid look and gentle movements of the hands and body. In sex, an important role is played by the emancipation of the parties and emotional phrases.
Remember, if a man is caressed not only by actions and love, but also by pleasant words, then the question of disharmony of relations will not even arise. A woman will need to learn to choose exactly the words that a man wants to hear from her.