In order to be a woman, it is not at all necessary to give up the social role that is habitual for you. Even being a leader, you can feel yourself a gentle and feminine person. Let the men admire themselves, do not give up compliments. In response to a flattering statement, smile and thank, but not a restrained and business smile, but a sincere and a little flirtatious. Do not be afraid that men will stop taking you seriously, this will not happen, because you have certainly proven yourself as an excellent professional. But by that you will let them know that next to them is a woman. Boldly suppress possible rudeness and purely masculine conversations, do not be your boyfriend. Then men will treat you like a woman, and this will give you an opportunity to feel feminine.
Allow yourself the small weaknesses that are so characteristic of women - chocolate or sweets, new perfumes and cosmetics. Choose a frivolous fragrance or a gently pink lipstick. Use gentle colors in the make-up, it will give you refinement and elegance. An important role is played by your hair. It must necessarily take place to be - even if you are used to just smoothly comb your hair for the office or, on the contrary, at home, you simply wrap your hair in a bun. It is necessary to change the image. Let it be a flying hairstyle or at least make a bunch elegant. Most often a woman does a woman's hair, do not miss the chance to feel refreshed.
Clothes are also very important. Carefully look through your wardrobe - do not you have male or just convenient and practical things? Do you have at least one beautiful dress? But not the one that has been hanging on the hanger for a year now, but the one you are wearing? Dilute the boring and comfortable wardrobe with frivolous things - let there will be flying fabrics, feminine silhouettes, bright drawings. Emphasize your dignity, because you can not see them behind a baggy sweater or a tight suit. The new clothes will not only externally make you light and feminine, but you will change inside. Such changes will have a beneficial effect on your self-perception, and on the attitude towards others around you.
Do not be shy to be weak, you should not do everything yourself. The idea that in this life you can not rely on anyone is destructive primarily for you. Give yourself the opportunity to rest from endless duties, let men do something for you. In the end, the fact that you can move the cabinet without help does not mean that it is necessary to do so. Never a woman feels more feminine than when men work for her. If men are stupid or simply out of the habit of offering their help, they will have to ask. Do not order, but ask - gently and affectionately. This exercise, too, can be useful to you, because a real woman must certainly not take pressure, but weakness.
In order to feel feminine and attractive, you can enroll in a dance school. Nothing affects a woman better than such pursuits. Improved posture, physical shape, and most importantly - the eyes light up. Movements will become easy and smooth, attracting the eye. The bravest can go to learn how to dance striptease.
What does a woman need to feel feminine? Most often, the lack of femininity is due to women's lack of confidence in their women's powers. A woman can be arbitrarily strong as a leader and head of a family. But completely incompetent in matters of relationships. The strength of a woman is in her weakness, and do not forget about it, because there was a strong man next to it so sometimes you need to be able to be a weak woman.