The article does not contain "snotty" stories, statements in the spirit of "all the peasants of the goat", "there is no love" and other melodrama. The fact that you read, we fished out with great difficulty from the men's lips a string of different tricks and tricky questions. Open the curtain! In our material you will read about real situations: how a strong sex uses women. Naked truth, cunning and meanness ...
If a guy uses you for sex
There are two models of the behavior of men, when from a girl they need sex and nothing else.
First : a little romance in the initial stages of dating, until it comes to sex.
The second : equally cool behavior throughout the entire period of your sexual relationships. And the guys do not try to gently treat the girl, we ourselves come up with ridiculous excuses to a partner from a number of "he does not want to show his feelings," "this is his character." Both models are united by a classical scheme of behavior of men. Soberly assess the habits of the guy: is not it your case?
- He does not introduce the girl to his environment, friends
- Ignore the offer to appear in public together: go to a cafe, a movie
- Your relationship is reduced to a strictly horizontal plane for someone at home, for everything else there is no time, no money, and such excuses. Comes to you only at a convenient time for him. If you call to visit, but you hear endless excuses, you are a sexual toy.
According to one of the interviewed guys, there are exceptions to the rules: "I can walk with her by the handle, go to the bar and skating rink, but I do not care for her at all. No feelings, no emotions. Yes, I'm such an asshole. I'm only interested in the physical side. If a girl gets bored or starts rubbing love boo, I'll just say goodbye to her. " If you are used as a "sporting achievement"
Often among the guys from 18 to 25 years old there is the notion "I have a sporting interest for her: achieve, sleep and throw." The victim chooses a preference:
- Beautiful, but cocky
- Impossible
- Pathos hen
- The Queen's Syndrome
- Once she turned me down
- Public person
- Whom you want for the sake of quantity
Such a guy will do everything to reach the goal - to get him to bed. And the candy-bouquet period, and romance. It is difficult and virtually impossible not to love. After meeting with such men, there is a sea of tears, pain and disappointment. To figure out the boy is unlikely to work ... Look, first of all, on his reputation. Further evaluate where and how you met. His actions. If there is information about the former, find out how their relationship began and why they broke up. These guys work on a proven scheme that successfully works with most girls.
If a man uses you as a decoration
Sometimes men just need to have a girl to be. Take with you to important events, meetings and evenings. The type of behavior of a representative of a stronger sex in this situation varies from the thickness of his wallet.
A wealthy guy will buy your attention with gifts, occasionally drive through restaurants and at the right time say "today we go to a meeting / banquet." A man
whose wallet is replenished only on the day of payment , will be there when it is convenient and financially unprofitable for him. Behavior traced primitive signs of attention - calls fish, pussycat, bunny. Sometimes he makes concessions not to lose you. The schedule of joint meetings is adjusted by itself. Can be rude, necessary. Refuses to get acquainted with the parents and close friends of the girl ridiculous excuses.
If you are used as a servant
Have there been situations that a man invites you to his place, when he has a mountain of dirty dishes, non-washed things and empty in the refrigerator? And with a sweet smile, hugging and smacking into the lips, asks you to get out. If it repeats regularly, the girl is perceived as a servant, who
"prepares to devour, well, and you can have sex .
" If you are used as a "reserve option"
It happens that you are used as a "spare airfield". And it's not about sex. We describe the situation. A girl walks with a guy and seems to be in a relationship with a happy end, and at one point, bang - the guy went to the former, began to meet with another or disappeared without a trace. So, dear ones, you were a "reserve option." Causes:
- the man has another woman and he chooses between the two;
- the man decided to nag his former, in order to eventually return it.
Most often in such cases you are nobody. Your relationship is in a limbo: they seemed to meet, but there was no official statement. At one time you felt a union with a man, in another - in itself.
How to determine? Hidden, his stories crumpled, information changes with refinements.
The guy avoids crowded places during joint walks, for example, leads to the lake. What is not romantic, walk in a quiet, secluded place and enjoy privacy? If the girl insisted on going to a crowded place - a cafe - the guy behaves excitedly, avoiding close contact. Hides calls and notifications from instant messengers. He puts the phone on the table with the screen down or holds it in his pocket. Often calls during the day and clarifies: where you are, what plans and where you are going. In any case not to cross with you.
If you are used for the sake of living space
There are times when a peasant manages force majeure: he remains without a roof over his head or without money. And then his "bright head" is visited by the idea of using a woman as a temporary shelter. Mean, humiliating, offensive - but vital ... Signs of behavior:
- It begs you to stay with you for several days in a row;
- Swears in the strongest feelings, despite the fact that your relationship with the week with a tail;
- Arguments an immediate move to your apartment. And he does not care that you live with your brother or mother.
Such individuals are capable of anything to quickly find themselves in a warm nest in record time.
How to recognize ? Try more about his prosperity, the work where he lives. And to be sure to check whether he has an apartment, ask him to stay for a few days in a row.
If you are used for money
Secured and successful girls should carefully choose partners and not miss the notorious gigolo. Most often, they choose the victim of the one that many times disappointed in men. And again, the polls showed that the money-laden men act according to two schemes:
The first . The boy, who sees in you a money bag, will be twice as gentle and attentive. He is the best man on the planet who does not care about your money and status. It spreads in tenderness and romance pohlesche sweet-haired nightingale. Alfonso is so perfect that it captures the spirit: breakfast in bed, massage in the evenings after work and a bunch of pleasant little things in everyday life. And also they try to show "who is the master in the house," to rule over the successful woman in her house. Such men rarely show their weaknesses and this is what girls are attracted to. And while the woman's head is enveloped in a love haze, the young man stealthily asks for a small sum for the development of a "general" business, or is rapidly approaching the date of the wedding.
The second is vile and mean. He wants a child from you. Such contrive to pierce condoms, "accidentally" do not have time to pull out. Do everything to make the rich girl "fly" as quickly as possible. And again, we quote the words of one of the stronger sex:
"Why lie? Yes, every man at least once thought to find yourself a rich woman and fertilize. Then the wedding, and her grandmother's in your pocket. " And a little more about men
This is an example of monstrous and greedy men, but still there are inexorable romance, beautiful husbands and guys who are really ready for you for everything! To any miracles, that you may be happy. All the same, there remain those guys for whom to make you happy is the purpose of his life. Remains still those to whom your smile on the face is more expensive than any diamond. And these guys are much more than scoundrels! And what is your man?