It is very difficult to answer the question of who is easier to raise and raise. Most likely there is no clear and unambiguous answer. However, it is traditionally believed that it is easiest for a father to educate a boy, and for a girl to mother. But here everything is not so simple. This opinion does not take into account the fact that all children are different, that each child is different. But it depends a lot on the nature of the child and his temperament.
Education of girls.
Mom, who brings up the girl, often faces a certain set of complexities. Below are described the most frequent problem properties of character, which, by their prevalence, can be attributed to the original patterns.
Girls are more emotional.
Mostamam remarks that girls, especially at a younger age, tend to change their mood often from dull to gay, which is unusual for boys, who are most likely inclined to long-term retention of one mood.
More often argue and read.
Speech development in girls is faster and due to some features of this development girls are easier to acquire verbal skills. Of course, on the one hand this is very good. However, this means that my mother has to deal with all the manifestations, whims and other manifestations of the personality and character of the girl.
Emotionally aggressive.
Boys tend to show their aggression with the help of physical methods, unlike dressing, which is more likely to attack the enemy with verbal means, that is, rumors, offensive comments, boycotts, exclusion from games, etc.
Education of boys.
According to statistical surveys, the most problems in the education of boys are the following features:
1. Boys are physically active and more aggressive.
Boys are very active physically, all the time running, jumping, falling, quite often something is damaged or broken. This can be explained by two reasons - they have only a low level of empathy, as a result of which the boy does not perceive the sense that "damage" and "break" is bad and high physical activity.
2. Verbal communication at first is quite complex.
Communication skills in boys develop more slowly than girls. In a significant degree, the style of these skills is also different. While girls are trying to discuss several variants of events, boys express only what they want to take, do or receive. As an example, you can consider choosing a cartoon for viewing. The girl will consider and discuss your and your options, the boy is likely to stand firm on his.
3. Every activity is tried to make a competition.
Boys always compete with brothers and sisters, peers, parents. If the family has two or more boys, then the data can be used if you want the children to eat faster, dress, etc.
However, stereotypes do not always work.
At the same time, it is not so rare to notice a typically boyish trait in a girl, or vice versa. To child upbringing has not turned into a bad nightmare, it is necessary to understand, because of what the child comes in a bad mood and how to avoid it:
- The child is very noisy. The advantage here is that it means developing a child sociable and active physically, which can often come in handy in life. To a child in the process of their games did not carry the apartment, you can often go with him to play on the street, record in the sports section, etc .;
- The child knows how to achieve it, forcing you to change your decision. This means that the child has a clear talent for non-verbal communication, he is able to convince the interlocutor in his point of view. Help it develop as much as possible by communicating with the child. But at the same time, if your opinions are different, then try to stay with your opinion, no matter how much the child argues with you;
- The child often breaks toys, sorting them into parts. This indicates a thirst for knowledge, intellectual curiosity. In this case, buy toys that are designed specifically to be collected and disassembled. However, if this is just a manifestation of the thirst to break, then it's best to just hide the child's toys, until he understands the idea that breaking is not good.